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Oct 31, 2010
Alexandra:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your reaction to your brother after his molestation was discovered is not uncommon. There was a dynamic present that left you feeling somewhat rejected afterward. Don't beat yourself up about that. Just understand that your reactions were innate in that you were a vulnerable little girl at the time. Don't put adult more mature values on what you did or did not do or say or feel as a little girl. And while the therapy you received did not help, not all therapists are created equally. There will come a time when you are going to need more help with this. In fact, you already do need more help. I hope you'll consider seeking out a different type of counseling, either now or sometime in the near future. You didn't deserve to be molested. You do deserve help now that you have. The right counselor can help improve the quality of all your relationships, as well as your ability to function in a healthy way. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Nov 02, 2010
I am taking charge of my own life's destiny: I can: I will: I must because I am WORTH it:
by: maurice

Great you found Darlene's safe haven site: Look forward now to making the neccessary changes in your way of thinking and being: Her Comment to you was from a great woman's heart: Huge in love and suppport for the abused: She's a winner over abuse Alexandra: what she wrote to you in her comment is WORTH following: You'll be all the better for it: Over and over again I keep saying if only those who abuse children/adolecents could only feel the pain of the effects it has on them: Those beasts/pedophilles/molesters don't give a damn because they are sickos and enjoy abusing their victims: While all levels of abuse are wrong, your brother abused you and your sister knowing what he was at doing it: Darlene has re-assured you of that: Alexabdra B you are intelligent: you know that now: Not all counsellors/therapists are so unprofessional as the one who just gave you pills: With your friend (boy) have the courage to get help, talk to a counsellor in your college or in your area: Hi allow yourself to grow as well as your boyfriend: Allow each other enough space to have ahealthy mind in a healthy body: Get out there taking part with your own age and gender taking part in team sports: I assure you you'll widen new horizons for yourself: You'll be making real and natural friends taking part in team games: Think Poistive: Be positive: Act positive; There's more to life than having sex you know: you both have to value and respect each enough so you can love, value and respect each others company: Alexandra B while you may never have that sex talk with your Mother: You know yourself what is right etc; You value and respect your body enough to love it: Hug and cuddle it: Making it truly special to you: Oh look in that mirror and say I am Beautiful; Celebarte You: Your brother absued you: accept that: That is history, sadly the effects of it on you linger on: Get help: Darlene has given you loving words of advice: You'll do what is right for you in that advice: You have alot of living to do Alexandra B: don't narrow it down just between the two of you: Team sports is a great way forward for both of you: I'M SPECIAL: I LOVE ME: Make both positive thinking for yourself Alexandra B

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