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May 01, 2010
Alex:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It sounds as though you are dealing with child neglect. Check out my signs of child neglect page on this site for more information. I also you contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially about what you are dealing with. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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May 01, 2010
Sorry to say...
by: Desiree

But YES, what you're father is doing... better yet, what he isn't doing, DOES classify as abuse. This is emotional abuse and neglect. I guarantee you that it hurts. I won't say that I know how you feel, but I know what you are going through. In my opinion, I would rather have a parent physically abuse me than mentally and emotionally abuse me. It hurts 20x worse, and it takes a lifetime to heal whereas bruises and scars heal. However, let me tell you something: you're father may not tell you he loves you... this might make you feel unloved... but deep down inside, he DOES love you. You are his child, he helped give you life. The love a parent feels for a child is innate! He just has a hard time with loving and affection... maybe you should get to know your father... and his past. This can give you some insight and understanding to why he does what he does.

May 02, 2010
An uncaring: Un loving Father is not Natural
by: maurice

When one parent ignores his child or children seems to me he never wanted the responsibility of children with their mother: You sure are being neglected and are living with mental abuse because you are void of his LOVE and acknowledgement that you are his beautiful child. Always believe in yourself: I pray that what you miss in your father you are getting from your MOTHER and other siblings: I hope too you have a real friend or two who will value you for the gifted teenager/young adult you are in your own right: While you naturally crave for his LOVE don't stop living your life to the full; Stay in education, stay in school/college. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. Alex3 I believe this works wonders for people the young and not so young but especially for children and adolecents while maturing and growing. Get part of a team, get involved with like-minded people who are into sporting and cultural activities. Era go on NOW I am in charge of my own destiny: My prayer is that your Father will someday soon LOVE you. Acknowledge you for his beautiful talleneted, gifted chidl> Talk hrough what you wrote possibily with a school counsellor: Hi think positive, act positive and be positive in all you do and say about yourself. Don't dwell on the negative: Always believe in yourself: I'm Special: I love me. I can, I will, I must, because I am WORTH it. Hug and cuddle yourself from time to time in front of your mirror. I love you in the mirror say as you do it. Hi Alex 3 that ain't silly to ask you or anyone to do. I do it and I know how I feel while I do it.

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