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Oct 14, 2010
Alex:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

None of what's happening is your fault. Something is SERIOUSLY wrong with your mother. This has NOTHING to do with you. She needs psychiatric help, and she needs it now. And you deserve and have a right to feel safe. Please contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone about what is happening in your home. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
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Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Oct 15, 2010
Please get out of there
by: Julie F

Oh my god what your mom is doing is totally messed up! I am so worried about you .. I never post things online but I wanted you to know that I care what happens to you. Please call the hotlines and tell them you are in a really dangerous situation and your life is in danger.. I will check back and see if you have an update because I can't stop thinking how you are out there feeling all alone and I just want to tell you that you're not alone, your mom's behavior is totally crazy and I'm so sorry that you are going through such conflict inside because really she is the problem, you are a normal person who deserves to be safe for god's sake!!       

Oct 15, 2010
Your mom is out of control
by: Anonymous

Alex, what your mom did to you is pathetic and ungrateful. She is truly sick, twisted, confused, warped, sadistic and cruel in her own ways of thinking and she needs help...but you need help too, so the sooner you tell someone about it, the better.

Oct 15, 2010
OMG!!!!
by: Lifele$$

Im seriously sure its not ur fault..... my mom doesnt abuse me or want to kill me or anything..... but she makes me feel like if i wasnt here her life would be 99.9% better....... sometimes tings happen...... but if i were u .... id try my best to get out of there!!!!!!! and quick.....

Oct 17, 2010
Celebrate You: I'M worth Celebrating
by: maurice

That's the beautiful and wonderful person I am seeing through the lines of your story: Alex L: You'll be the winner over that non-ecxistent real mother in your life: A woman who births a child's automatically becomes a Mother: We the child had no say on that day of our lives: Yet we had to take all that was meted out to us: The good: the Bad: the indiffernet: The sexual: The physiacal: the emotional Abuse and what ever forms our parent's The single: The disfunctional: The weird: The Abusers: Sadly all of us who arrive on Darlene's safe haven to tell someone our stroy, maybe for the first time seeking real help are, were in the abused catergory: Unlucky to have been born into such: Alex L you'll be a winner: what will I be??? I'll be a winner over my abuser: Always believe in yourself: Darlene words to you in her comment (lucky you) are you stepping stones to real freedom from your past misery and abuse: She has given loving and encourgeing words: But Alex L affirming words too: Real and truthful Never my fault what that unreal woman (I called mother) did to me: I am an intelligent thinking child of the universe: I came from a sick woman womb: I never asked to be born to such: I can't be blamed for her mental state and the ( many derogatory names comes to my mind) better not expressed here: Alex L begin to cahnge your lifestyle's: Get out and about with likeminded people ( a few hopefully will be your real and true friends} taking part in sporting and cultural activities, especially team sports: I truly believe Alex L if you do a whole new world will open up for you: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: My motto will be: I CANN: I WILLL: I MUSTT: Because I am WORTH IT: correct my spellings Alex L while making sense of the Motto I would love you to live by: Darlene mentioned some form of counselling: she did that for a reason: Think about it: Act on it: stay safe: be safe: my motto:

Oct 19, 2010
Alex...
by: Anonymous

it's not your fault.

Something altered her. Drugs, depression, chemical imbalance, her own childhood memories? I don't know - but if she just changed....something is going on.

TELL. Please. The biggest hope is that if she got the help she needed she'd change back....but most importantly, you'd be safe. That's number 1. Take care of you, be kind to you.


Oct 20, 2010
love shouldn't hurt
by: john

you should know you'r not alone i have never beenabused i have been hit but thats normal what your going though aint. you need to leave there soon. i have read all this stories and i ask God how he could let this happen to his kids and he doesn't reply
i'm here for you if anyone needs to talk you can text me (comment here) no mater what ill reply i'm only 17, but i have friends who have been though this and i know i can help.

i have desided to be a mute becuse i wont to protect people and i read things like this and i relize i can never help everyone. so i will stop talking till ya'll find help and ill post how many days i go with out talking on differnt stories. i wont you to know your loved even if its only by me. even the guys out there i love you becuse you deserv it. i know most guys are freaked when a guy says they love them, but they dont go though what you do.
i don't know what to do to help though.
the scars that kids have to live with is more than what adults will alow themself to belive a kid could have. we may be kids but we are victoms. why must we suffer. to many kids die from abuse. to many are left in silence. TO MANY ARE LEFT ALONE I SAY NO MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WHEN DO WE SAY ENOUGH IS ENOUGH???? WHEN DOES IT ALL END?

From Darlene - Webmaster: John, how you can help is to use your voice. Your voice matters. Don't be mute. Don't stay silent. Speak out, and speak out with purpose. And trust me, being hit is NOT normal. No person should have to endure being hit.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir



Oct 24, 2010
Get out of there !!
by: Sandra B

Alex.. none of what happened/happens is your foult. NONE OF IT. and you are strong, because your still here. you are strong, please remember that. and please... pleasepleasepleaas... GET OUT OF THERE. i will hope for you, hope that you someday soon will be safe. take care, honey

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