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Jun 15, 2010
Adeyaline:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you are now in a safe place with loving people. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Jun 16, 2010
God forgive such people who distort His LOVE for their own aims
by: maurice

I am sitting here fuming: anger high: your story is out and out animalstic in what those males and your mother did to you: I was abused by a Religious Man who used and abused his power over us in God's name: Man's unhumanity to man that is now equalled by woman's etc too: Your were blessed to have real and good human beings who took you away from such barbarity and abuse on such a beautiful and innocent girl/daughter child of GOD: The God that I believe in created each one of us equally and gave no one power oevr another: We are all equal in His Eyes: He has no favourites: God works with LOVE: How stupid and rediculous it is ADEYALINE for two grown up adults to marry their 8 year old daughter to an other child of 13: Great you are safe NOW: please stay safe and please Always Believe In Yourself: Be true to yourself: Be true to those who love and keep you safe right now: Have true and real friends (Special) only one or two mind you who will love and cherish you for the wonderful and beautiful person/young adult woman you are: Build up your self worth: Your Self Esteem: Have a great and good mirror image of yourself: Love that Me looking out at you: Be gentle and kind to yourself: Your Body: Soothe away those horrible feelings and pain with lasting effects if you don't get help for the cruel/sadistic abuse they perpetrated on you: Adeyaline, please speak with a counsellor/therapist who will help you put all that was done you in perspective: Then get out there having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes that is a must: Take part with your own gender and age group in sporting and cultural activities: It will give you a whole new life and world to live and be part of: You'll make genuine and sincere friends and have likeminded people as your companions through life: There is safety in numbers: Having Team mates where you can display your gifts and tallents with will make the difference in your life: Live well: Laugh alot: Love much: I will: I will: because I am WORTH it get my message special one

Jun 17, 2010
uqh
by: Anonymous

it makes me soo mad and so sad at the same time how soo many people get abused i sit down and realizd that i'm lucky i dont have to go through that. how can parents be soo abusive to their own child if their not gonna treat a child with respect then not have one at all ! it makes me angry that soo many people out there can t have kids and the ones that do just abuses them harms those who are innocent and precious i'm only 16 but i hate that soo many people out there have sick minds on rapeing kids uqh makes me soo angry and i'm thankful i have a family who cares and loves me and dont treat me like that, and one day i wanna help those people who are abused and neglected that is one of the 1st things i wanna do in life

Jun 17, 2010
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by: Desiree

That was entirely wrong and I'm glad they finally got caught. You deserve way better than what has been done to you and hopefully you forget about your past and learn to look ar your future. You are very brave =]]

Aug 07, 2010
So wrong
by: Leah

What they did to you in your life was SO WRONG. I am a Mormon (The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints that is big in Utah, though I live in Michigan) and the things they did are COMPLETELY contrary to what we believe. I, too, believe that the worth of souls is great in the sight of God and that we were all created equal and that we are precious in his sight. He teaches to follow the example of his Son, who would never have agreed with what your parents taught/did. That's why I love this religion: if people actually apply it, extreme things like that would never happen!! When they twist it and go contrary to the intent of Jesus' teachings, OF COURSE bad things happen! I am so sorry that these things were done to you in the name of my religion. I hope you can see the big picture and where your parents fit into it, and use wisdom in your judgment of religion. Realize that it is what it is: if their religion seemed brutal and extreme to you, it probably was! But also realize that their 'religion' was mislabeled and that every religion is not like that (not even the original 'Mormons' are like that). Keep your eyes open and judge for yourself what is good and bad. God bless your friend who pulled you out of there and the courts who defended you!!! I'm SO glad you weren't stuck with that situation any longer.

Aug 15, 2010
I hope and pray you are in a better place and space NOW
by: maurice

Great being back with you Adeyaline and darlene's site: For the past number of weeks I was away as I was moving house and was not in a good space to open up and write my true feelings: But now I am settling in my new house: Here 4 days: the past twenty four hour have been blessings as I have re-connected with great and wonderful people in this safe haven for us all to share our true feelings knowing each one of us will empatise with the other in their pain of having been abused: You have my heartfelt feelings already Adeyaline: Ther haven't changed you can still soak up what is helpful to you in my comment: As always Darlene's woman's heart is what you need to listen to and act on: She's a true mother figure to us all as unique and spaecial individuals: Totally professional and the best of Steward over her site: I hope you are having a healthy mind in a healthy body: Active and Alive living your life to the full: with the help of real, genuine, true , sincere and respectful friends> YOUR THE BEST what am I?? I am the best

Aug 16, 2010
i am LDS
by: molly

my wards have never EVER done anything of the sort. i was always encouraged to have my own opinions and life and career and to only get married when i felt ready. my parents dont want me to have sex until out of high school. and my mother was raised in utah. her parents were sooo strict they didnt even have a television. maybe you are the other LDS, who is your current prophet? mine is Thomas s monson

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