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Oct 26, 2010
Abdul:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You did NOTHING wrong. None of what happened to you was your fault. NONE OF IT. Your family is being very typical under such circumstances—taking the side of the abuser/molester—because believing the truth tears at the fabric of what they grew up with. You need help with all this. I don't know where you live, so I can only suggest you turn to whatever resources are available to you through your local community. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 27, 2010
THE IS HELP
by: Anonymous

Abdul, I have the same kind of history. Believe me, I too went through much too much sex at much too early an age and without the suport of my family, in fact it was they who did the abuse. I too, used drugs and alcahol to numb my pain and to allow me to function at a higher level than I otherwise could. I, too, had alcohol and pot stop working for me, because the fact is that they only help part of you; the rest keeps getting worse. The isolation that sexual abuse and addiction cause is hell on earth.

I don't know where you are, but in the USA I found an incest therapy group. It was wonderful to be in a room full of people who understood what I was feeling, for all my life, my family had denied what was happening to me; there was no safe place to be me. I also found Alcoholics Anonymous, which has helped me to believe in myself and in others, again. Life is so much better now.

I declare to you with all my heart that you can find real love and trust and serenity. Take heart and make the call or contact AA over the internet. They are waiting for you to reach out, for helping you would be a privilage.

God bless you,
Louise

Oct 27, 2010
talk it out
by: michelle f

Do not ever try to take your life again!!!!!!!!!
God may have a plan for you you may just meet someone like you that you need to give some advice to about how to deal.Talk to someone if you ever meet anyone that will share with you about their life than you can trust them.>........DO TRUST THEM>>>>>>.It doesnt matter who believes you just that you can heal from it.I am 39 I still deal with it.But I am to good a person to let that monster take my life.I believe i have more wonderful things to do.Even if it is only to see the smallest to biggest,most beautiful things God has put before me.Most people see the birds flying in the air but they dont see the freedom I do,the grace that they have,outside and free.Please hold on it will get better.

Oct 29, 2010
I'll the winner: Always believe in yourself:
by: maurice

You are beautifully human like the rest of us Abdul: So you felt the pain of abuse and being ignored by your sibling when you related your true feelings to them: HI, KNOW, DARLENE HAS GIVEN YOU REAL WAYS FORWARD IN YOUR LIFE NOW: You will be the winner over Your parents/siblings: You know yourself: Your Intelligent: you have the will power to get sorted: you are a young thinking Young thinking Male with a desire to sort your life out: You have the courage to change your daily lifestyle's: Make your Motto: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: Because I am WORTH it: Don't Quit: Don't give up on your own self belief: You sure were very honest it what you wrote: Darlene's knows you want to live your life better and to the full: READ her comment: make it your own: get help from your friends to have the courage to seek out counselling/programs that will help you with your alcohol/drug consuming: There is help out there for you: You go for that help: you will succeed once you take the first steps with a little a lot of help from your real and true friends: A prayer might help you focus your thoughts and your mind: Your story is a cry for help: You are a good age now to do something about all your wrote: Reading Darlene's comment will put all you have written about in perspective: Your parent's attitude: Your siblings know you are right but are too weak to accept what you are saying to them now: Time will sure sort that out: You live your NOW time and get on with getting real help: Counselling would be a good start: The help of a true and good friend will also help you sort your head out: Build up your self esteem: clear your head of the negative thinking about yourself: Think Positive: Act Positive: Be positive in all you do and say about yourself: My Motto: I will: I can: I must: Why??? because I am WORTH it:

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