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Mar 18, 2010
A:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me. I do hope you are now in a safe place. You did not deserve to be abused in any way. Your mother has serious problems. The fact that she would beat you for being victimized, and then have the audacity to accuse you of trying to make her jealous...she is very twisted.

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Mar 19, 2010
Not Your Fault
by: Anonymous

A, what your abusers did to you was truly pathetic and ungrateful. Your "mother", along with your molesters, is truly twisted, sick, cruel and sadistic in her own ways of thinking. She didn't deserve to have a beautiful child like you, but most of all, you certainly didn't deserve to have an uncaring, sick, twisted, sadistic, animalistic, barbaric, ruthless mother. She is also a coward because only a coward would beat on such a little girl for trying to get help and for small things, especially leaving a bowl in the sink. She really needs to be put to prison with her slimy boyfriends and their fellow molesters for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because you did nothing wrong; in fact, you were the child, those cowards were the adults. They had all the power and they only misused it. I really hope that you were in a safe place now, and if not, please tell someone you really trust because the sooner you tell, the better.

Mar 21, 2010
Hope you are in a safe place
by: Mac

A1; Whever you are now, please get yourself into a safe place, find support & referal help. Ck, out thelamplighters on the web for a local support group in your area. Since you have internet access, you could also ck. out shelters, advocacy centers,etc. 211 can also hook you up to local agencies. Know you are not alone,& there is help /safe places to go, & people to talk to.Proud of you ! You're a survivor & soon to be thriver. Sharing your story gives hope to others, as well as helping to heal the brokenness within you. I also have been tru your experience, & have found healing, hope, the sence of self that never got to be happy & loved properly. Don't give up. A big help for my reovery process was accouple of things I learned in AA.1) That only a power greater than myself can bring the healing , hope, changes into my life.We've got our work to do:get to a safe place, & begin to learn , grow ,heal. I used to feel responsible for all things.Finally ,learning the difference that some things are ours to work on , change,etc., & somethings are God's to do, & to let Him do those things in us & inour lives, our the keys to continuing successfully on the recovery path. You're on your way;keep going forward!.

Mar 21, 2010
We all care about YOU
by: maurice

Great you related your story to Darlene and her visitors. I read all stories in total respect od the beauiful and wonderful human being, be they child/teenager/adplecent?young adult? all ages of adult. telling and relating their story> I know Darlene is a true and genuine steward of her site. Once she has placed a story on her safe haven site each of us her visitors can be assured she cares. Her comments are immediate stepping stones for each of her visitors to seeking the help they need as part of their healing process. She realizes that it could be one's first cry for help. We all neeed professional and natural help in our healing. A1 you encouraged by Darlene to get help for your betterment and good. In her comment their is always a heartfelt plea to each visitor to get help. With the help of the one (friend) person you trust A1 start doing something to get real help. Your MOTHER sadly battered and bruised mentally and physically in abuse that you need real LOVE now to erase the effects of that abuse. You cannot do it on your own. Always believe in yourself: I am now the most important beautiful and wonderful young adult woman that I need to love, value and respect my Self Esteem, my dignity so that I respect for myself will keep me safe. I hope like Darlene, Annony,ous and Mac you are in a safe loving environment. Surrounded by people who genuinely love you for who you have become now. In other words I hope you are with people who know what is the best for you. Will help you get the counselling that will make you a stronger woamn in yourself. Will put your Mothers horrible treatment of you with the others who absued you in perspective. There is a life after having been abused, but you must want what is the best for you. Today, make a real sense of Darlene's comment and act on it. Mac and annonymous and myself know That Darlene has written from her heart just for your good. I can: I will: I must: because I am worth it. Have ahealthy mind in a healthy body. Get out there and be active and alive with like-minded people in sporting and cultural activities. Be a Team person and you'll find it will be a healthy option for you mixing with good people who care about each others healthy and welbeing. you'll make real life long friends. Off that bottom of yours, up, up and out of the house intergrating and mixing with such people. A1 it ain't for my good that I am encourageing you: Get the message:

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