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Jan 09, 2008
Confused
by: Anonymous

The doctor should have reported it to Child Protection Services. By the way, what is C.A.S.

You should start taking her to see a counselor. Sometimes a counselor can get things out of them that you can't. If the counselor does, then they can tell the court what is going on.

Maybe even go to the police yourself and have her tell the police. Something should be done.

Jan 09, 2008
a child has the right to say
by: Anonymous

hello and i would like to let you know it dosent matter how old your daughter is she has the right for you to take her to a counsellor or take her to a area health clinic and let her talk to sameone about what her daddy did they will take reports and it will stand in court i have seen many cases like your and the judge say a child dose not lie over things like this ,,i wish you and your daughter well hope all turns out for you two , as a mother with kids i would say you fight your life for the rights of your young daughter take care angel blessing ros

Nov 16, 2009
same issues here
by: AnonymousFLA

Fight just keep fighting. My 7yo step daughter has been telling my husband and I stories every other week about how her new stepfather watches her in the shower and makes her undress in front of him. we have called DCF we have her talking to a counsler everything we can think of and no one is listening. the stupid counsler has questioned her about it in front of her mother!!! how stupid. she ofcourse didn't tell her the truth and when we asked her why she lied she said because her mother could hear and would get mad! So now we are back to square one...don't give up we've been dealing with it for almost a year now. Someone somewhere will help. I'm not giving up for her sake.

Dec 05, 2009
The CPS and Cops are in it to
by: Anonymous

I know what all of you are saying. Child protection services has been called some many times that they are telling me that I can not call them anymore. The cops seems like they just don't care. It's a shame what are children are going through. We have to deal with it now but when they get older, it will be worse. They will not be able to trust anyone because no one is helping, even the people who they thought could help, will not. Is walking in front of children naked, girls and boys, considered abuse. I would never walk in front of any child naked. The CPS people are saying to me that they don't see anything wrong with it. I do. These children are going to be emotionally, physically and maybe even verbally scarred for life. They can not handle it. That is why some of them turn gay, go to jail, and get into all kinds of trouble. CPS needs to be reported. They are not doing their job. They don't care what the child has to say and I think that is very important. I believe my child and I am going to stand by him every step of the way. I am going to fight and never ever give up because what's goes around comes around, you will always sow what you reap, and what you do to others will come back to you twice as bad. So we must continue to fight.

Dec 24, 2009
No one Cares
by: Silent Scream

My son still visits his biological mother, yes, MY SON, because I've had him since birth and she has done nothing or bought nothing for him, even til this day she hasn't bought anything for him. She also has had three other children after him, but she has them. How come CPS has not taken those children that she has now. I'm sure that the other children are going through this too but they are too young to understand. I don't understand.

He still has to continue to go on these visits even though he does not want to go. I have to talk him into going. She lives with her boyfriend and he's afraid of her and more afraid of her boyfriend. During the last visit, when he came home, he was complaining that his arm hurts. He told me her boyfriend twisted his arm and now it hurts him. I have to make a doctor's appointment to get it checked out. This is not the first time he has got hurt over there. I asked him did he tell her that her boyfriend hurt him and he said yes but she didn't do anything. What kind of mother would continue to live with a man who continues to hurt her children. I found out a long time ago that she is mentally retarded. So that means she is mental not capable of making the rights decisions. She does not need any children.

I feel like that I am standing in a room, all along and screaming and no one is listening to me.

Sep 23, 2010
my baby boy
by: Anonymous

My ex had abused me and my daughter really bad so I left to safe place but we have a son together that he now has custody because him and his family tricked me by serving me court papers with out me knowing so I said what I did not get served so I took him to court again but the judge won't change his mind and when I tried talking to child protective service about what I went through with him and my daughter and that I am afraid for my son because he had told me that he will treat him the same way.
Today I had visitation after court but because I live on a different Island I had no clothes for my son but his dad left me with out any clothes and diapers for my son and he is sick and he also left me with no medicine for him as well.
I had to go to the store and buy those things.
I tried telling someone how my ex is but no one would listen and I am afraid that no one will know how he is until its too late and my son is badly hurt from him.
I feel like I hit a wall I just don't know what to do.

Dec 08, 2010
I know very much the feelings
by: Anonymous

a letter i sent to sheriff: How is it that in Brunswick co a child can be mentally abused for what has turned out to be many years by his father. Child protective services in Brunswick co is very aware of the abuse and is very aware it is a true account. And that the child undergoes intensive home therapy for this approx. 3 to 4 times a week. They have the mother sign a paper to keep the abused child safe from the abusers and to get an ex parte? (in which she was denied by the court system) The child protective services closes the case saying they gave the mother help. But actually the help was in favor of the father, this is where my question comes in. The mother filed for an emergency custody court hearing back in april,it is now dec. the father has kept it stalled til he could complete the cop school The father has attempted suicide before, has lied in court before with child support, CPS knows he has abused his child, been involved in a domestic as recently as this past July, and has had charges brung against him before for abuse of another child (which that case was throwed out cause he knew the judge well and the ADA screwed the case). My question to you is how can a mother have to sign a paper to keep her child protected from this person, the father, but the county is going allow him to become a cop and carry a gun? Thanks to our fine CPS and their lack of doing their job, you are unaware this man sets in your classes and wants to be employeed by the county under you, and the mother has contempt charges on her,the child is in all that therapy and it is he who suffers.
There is so much that isnt known about this man in which seeks employment as a cop and his playing being a past cop has always got him out of a lot of domestic stuff. he and his wife even played the "my husband use to be a cop in July when they were involved in a domestic, that time it was caught on record with the 911 center. But when it comes to child abuse I just cant see it going on and letting it to continue and allowing a man to become a cop that the mother of his son has a paper saying she would protect the child and her the one now with contempt charges. If you wish to follow up on this please feel free to contact me. I am the mother of this abused child. This county will not take a stand for him but I sure will and tell my sons story and my past story with this man, so no others have to be made feel like just because we are not cops or know cops we are the ones that suffer, the children suffer most. I will continue to tell my story til someone listens. I was faced in April with my son wanting to committ suicide because of the abuse and stress, that is how I found out about the severity of the abuse. No other mother should have to face that, much less get no county backing once it is found out and very well known thru many in the communitee.


people I have been pleading everywhere, Fight for our children

Apr 19, 2012
can some help with my situation
by: Anonymous

I have 4 kids from my ex husband n we been separate 12yrs he end up getting full custody of my kids well during the time he literally try keeping me from my kids every time I found out where they live he would move he won't give me there number he try to force my kids to think that his wife is there mom well my 2 oldest kids turn 18 n the only way I got them BK Cuzz they ran away n came looking for mei also went to jail for kidnapping witch the charged got drop they told me that the stepmom would lock the covers so they Cannt eat hit them with branches now I Goth two youngest ones still under his roof my 16 ye old. Txt me n said that she got into it with her and her dad said that he was going to beat my daughter ass when he gets home from that my daughter n baby son whose 12 did not want to ne there any more they were scared.my oldest son had a blackeye one time n the stepmom said my youngest some did it wit h was not true CPA n the cops both been out to the house n did nothing....now isn't know what to fo

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