My Husband Abused Daughter
My 8 years old daughter just told me that my husband kissed her on her mouth and asked her to grabbed his part. She said that he was asking her if she like it and not to tell me of what he did. I asked her more question and she said he didnt touch her private part, took her clothes off or any penetration. My husband said he is sorry and he doesn't know why he didn't it. He said to please allow him to show me he will never do that again. He said he will get help and see a specialist and that he love me and care for my girl. I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do. He told me he was abuse by his mother's step dad and he knows he won't do it again. He will see a specialist to get help. He said he is not like that and dont know why he did that. He said he is not a bad person and he want to know why he did such of horrible thing. I want to know if I should with time give him an opportunity after he is seen by an specialist.
I'm sorry but I'm lost. For now I spoke to my girl and I told her she is my hero and that I'm so proud of her telling me right away and I will make sure to protect her. I told her she didn't do anything bad and the one who did bad things was him. She is telling me in another occasion he hugged her and grabbed her butt. Also he asked her before to lying on his belly and asked it if that was comfy. My daughter told me when that happened when he was kissing her and while she was grabbing his part that he was telling her that he loves her, care for her and dont want anyone to take her away from him.
Please I need advise in what to do. I dont work. He support the house and I'm pregnant. I already told him I want him to leave and I wont be with him. He is saying he is sorry and he will make it up to me and her because she doesnt have nobody only us and he will do whatever it takes to prove that he wont do it and he will be a good roll model.... Please help me to decide what to do...
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