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Oct 21, 2010
 Sandy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Molesters, even those who were themselves sexually abused as children, usually do not admit to being sexual abusers themselves when they are. They tend not to admit to what they've done. This is why I do not advocate for confrontations. All too often such confrontations leave the victim feeling re-victimized. YOU know what happened, and that's the most important thing of all. You can't control what your brother says or does; you can only control how you respond, and what YOU say and do. If you aren't already in some form of counseling, I strongly recommend seeking it out. You're certainly worth that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 22, 2010
 abuse
by: Sandy

when i wrote in my story i forgot to say that i did have lots of counseling but nobody never wanted to hear about it.i also went to sexual abuse counseling .it is hard to forget for all the thing syou have lost .i did forgive in my heart but it does not stop the hurt.
Oct 30, 2010
 My life's happiness and destiny is in my own hands
by: maurice

Your story is true: As Darlene says you know what happened to you: Yes your brother too: All that matters now is that you get help: Your life is all that matters now: Darlene; Please truly take her loving helpful words to your heart: more so than you mind: Work on them out of your heart rather than out of your head: Darlene has put what happened to you by your brother in total honesty and perspective: All of us who wer abused have our own way of coping with it In time I am sure too your brother will admit and get help: I am the most important person NOW: I am all that matters: I will live my life to the full: I will care for my every need: Speak with a counsellor: You'll be fine Sandy C: Acknowledge your own wonderfulness: Your giftedness: Your Tallents: Your beautifulness: Know too there is a full life to be lived afte ABUSE: Darlene, herself has proven that because she is a victim into victory over her own abuse: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Oh yes Ms Sandy C: this will work wonders for you: You'll have get out and about with your friends: and likeminded people taking part in team sports: Sporting and cultural activities: You'll be a new thinking person in a short time: Build up a good Mirror Image of yourself Like and LOVE who you see in the mirror: My Motto: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: WHY??? simply because I am WORTH it. Don't be lazy now: Act today on Darlene's Personal Comment to you:

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