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Aug 12, 2010
 Morgan:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It matters; it will ALWAYS matter. And it was NOT your fault. It will NEVER be your fault. They were the adults; you were the child. Please consider some form of counseling to help you deal with the repercussions of what happened to you. You're worthy of that kind of help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Aug 12, 2010
 Ughh !
by: Anonymous

Omg Thats So Sad And It Does Matter , He's Scum ! And Your Voice Counts :) Never Feel Guilty Yours As Good As Anyone And Your Dad Is Jus A Sick Man None Of That Is Your Fault !!!
Aug 13, 2010
 The sooner, the better...Darlene is right!
by: Anonymous

Morgan, what your parents did to you is pathetic and ungrateful because they are truly twisted, sick and cruel in their own ways of thinking. Oh, and what happened will never be your fault because you were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they only misused it. They didn't deserve to have such a beautiful daughter like you; you didn't deserve to have such uneducated, uncaring, unloving, ignorant, sick, cruel, animalistic, twisted, ruthless, sadistic parents; you deserved to have the parents who will truly love you and be there for you when you'll need them...so those beasts for parents should be locked up for those terrible and sadistic crimes that they committed against you because they should've known better and loved and cherished you. You might want to try counselling and call the police on your so-called parents. God bless you.
Aug 14, 2010
 There is goodness and greatness in me: I'M SPECIAL
by: maurice

Darlene knows best Morgan: be re-assured by the words she has spoken to you from her heart: A womans heart to the heart of someone truly special in your own right: I'm the best and no one is going to take that away from me: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF MORGAN: I have journey with young people and the families for over 40 years: Self Esteem: Self Worth is always what I wanted them to have about themselves so that when anything unduly happened to them they would know best how to cope with it: You through no fault of your own were born into a very insecure home: Simply because your Father and Mother did not know how to love, Value and respect each other: They were just two individuals who married: birthed beautiful children if it was out of love then they would not have devorced but lived together making one happy family and home: Don't you ever blame yourself, so stop NOW, your life is the most important for you to live now to the full: I WILL: I CAN; I MUST; Because I am worth it: Darlene's words to you are your stepping stones to greatness: Beleive me Morgan: She has been through the pain of abuse; Her words to you are real because she had to get off her bottom and make a real sense of her life after absue: She's the winner: She's everyone's Guardian Angel when they come on this sit: Her very special gift and vision for us all: Devorce is such a mystery but real: I find it difficult at times to understand why children have to decide between one parent and the other in devorce: especially if one of them have abused more than the other: Your mother having to drop you off to your father for him to do what he did to you and your little ssiter does not make sense to me; because sadly YOU are the one that has to live and make sense of it: Morgan, you are a bright, gifted, intelligent teenager/young thinking adult: You'll make real sense of what Darlene wrote to you: When you do, then get on with living your life to the full: Live well: laugh alot; love much: beginning with your good self: I will: etc The best way forward is for you to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: That means you have to become active and live with other your own peer group: in college, in your neighbourhood, taking part in sporting and cultural activities: There is safety and learning in numbers Morgan: You'll grow up naturally in the company of great and good friends with loads of likeminded aquaintances: build healthy and wholesome relationships will becaime easy, good, respectful, in genuine and true LOVE; So off that Bottom now and get living your life to the full: I pray you have one/two very special people in your life called friend; Females because you are good for each other, safety for each other, security for each other, you can talk through real stuff with each other: Thay are your golden nuggets as you are theirs: Take Darlene's word to your heart, believe them and act on them:
Aug 15, 2010
 Not Alone
by: Karen

My story has a lot of the same key points as yours does. I never talked about but I was older then you were. It wasn't your fault but I know there is a long distance gab between the brain and the heart. Your father is completely to blame. And it does matter and you shouldn't be ashamed of it, your father should hold all that shame. But you also shouldn't let it define your life, that was something that your father did, not you. I know it hurts to know that your parents didn't loved you enough to do what was right for you or think about your feelings over theirs. DNA doesn't make your family and I'm sure that you are a good person and I hope you have found good people to be in your life. If your father is still around or in your life it might be a good idea to tell him that you remember him doing that in the hopes of stopping him from doing it to another child, if it is to late to press charges like it is in my case. I am personally finding that just putting it in writing is kind of freeing, especially when compared to keeping it locked inside you. I wish you luck in putting this behind you and moving forward.

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