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Feb 01, 2012
 Anna:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm going to be honest and frank with you because I think you need to hear this. You are spending so much time wondering why your mother didn't do anything about what you brother did to you that you are missing the most important thing right now: That staying in that environment with your brother there is putting your children at risk for sexual abuse EACH AND EVERY MOMENT OF THE DAY. I know you believe you're protecting them by locking them up with you in a room, but that only works when you're around. No matter how much you teach them to tell you, THEY CANNOT PROTECT THEMSELVES FROM A GROWN PERSON! Only you can do that. A tight budget can't be more important than the safety of your children. Your brother remembers everything, of that I have no doubt. But he figures he got away with it with you (and possibly, quite likely others) so he can keep getting away with it. Please DO seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to help you gain some perspective here. And please, get your children out of harms way. As long as you believe there are no options, there are no options. But if you believe there ARE options, there will be options. Your children deserve to be protected, and you deserve the help you need. I send you love, light and healing energy, Anna. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 20, 2012
 dear,poor anna
by: shaniya.h

excuse, me anna, (because I am 10) What THE HECK WAS Your
BROTHER THINKING!! touchin' you on your behind! if a boy touched me there, I will flip out!!
Feb 22, 2012
 @ Shaniya
by: Anonymous

I wish I knew!!! I wish I knew why he would do that to me. And at that moment I didnt know much about what kids now in days now but little after that in school they started teaching us that those type of things werent right,and that is when I was more shocked.
Feb 22, 2012
 To Darlene
by: Anna

Thank you so much for replying to my story. You dont know how much it meant to me that I finally got everything out and you replied meaning you took your time to read my post,it was totally different than when I told my husband because I didnt tell him the whole details. Believe it or not I have decided to stop working and be with my children all day, and that was due to my mother who was taking care of them while I worked and with my brother being there I just couldnt live in peace while at work.Especially now that he has decided to stay with my mother for ever after he was only suppose to be here for the holidays.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read and response.

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