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Jun 26, 2013
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You have your own healing to be committed to, not that of your parents. Their healing is their responsibility. You spent your life as a child and youth protecting your parents from each other. But as difficult as it is to do, in order for your own healing to truly begin, you must understand that it's not your job to protect your parents from each other. They are full grown adults, even though they don't act like it. THEY are responsible for their own lives and the choices they make. The best way to help them is to get healing for yourself and be an example to them. Not by telling them anything, but rather, by being a model to them. But it's still up to them to see you as a model. Worrying about your parents, in fact, worrying about anything or anyone, is not even remotely helpful to you or anyone. Worrying brings more of what you don't want in your life, because your emotions are focused on the negative. When you are focused on the negative, the Universe brings more of it to you because that's your focus. So instead, focus on the positive. Focus on what you really desire in your life and for you. You've spent so much time already playing the moderator and rescuer in your family dynamic that it will be difficult to let go of the role. But you CAN do it. You MUST do it for the sake of your own good health. THAT would be coming to know the truth. I send you love, light and healing energy, Alyssa. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Darlene Barriere
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