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Aug 10, 2011
Amy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

J--- did you a huge favour breaking up with you for good. He showed you his true colours and purpose. He used you and abused you. He is seriously bad news. The fact that he is now out of your life is such a good thing. So many other victims of relationship violence cannot get out of the relationship without deep fear of harm. You don't have that worry. The violence would have escalated and intensified had the relationship continued. Again, you don't have the worry. And don't be too quick to assume that I or anyone who visits this site thinks you're "dumb". Misguided, yes, but certainly not dumb. Focus on your self-esteem, Amy. Focus on YOU and your needs; and then fulfill them for your Self. A healthy relationship starts with a healthy self-esteem. You are worthy of dignity and respect. Always. And keep in mind that the most important relationship you'll ever have is the one you have with your Self. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
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Aug 11, 2011
I am a winner in my own right: I'm the best:
by: maurice

Amy: Read Darlene's comment then you'll put a value on what I just said about you: I am the winner in my own RIGHT: From Today you can begin to be AMAZING: The architect of my own destiny: BEAUTIFUL: I am beautiful both inside and out: DYNAMIC: Ever changeing and growing now that this eslfish abusive so called friend is gone from my life: Become ENTHUASTIC: About living and loving life: Amy: you surround yourself with real friends your own age and gender: (most important) always good to have a girlie friends to share all the intimate stuff with and make sense of it for each other: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Yes, Amy get out and about being active and alive taking part with friends, like-minded people taking part in TEAM sport and sporting and cultural activities: I guarantee within a short time you will be a new person: You'll make natural and true friends for life and have loads to make you happty and smile when you cross path's: Value, love and apprecieate your body beautiul and respect it being so: Be safe: Stay Safe: Look in the mirror the larger the better because then you can see the complete me saying hi back to you; Then think positive thoughts about the wonderful and beautiful me looking at you: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: That you are AMY: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: My motto: I will: I can etc AMY

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