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Mar 29, 2011
Alex:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've identified both horrific child abuse and relationship violence. I'm very concerned about your ability to make healthy choices for yourself as a result of the terrible abuse you endured at the hands of someone who was there to protect you, but didn't. Please consider contacting ChildLine on 0800 1111. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.donthideit.com

You didn't, and don't, deserve to be mistreated in any way. You deserve help now that you have. Please reach out for that help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere: author. speaker. survivor. coach.
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Mar 30, 2011
Stay SAFE: Be SAFE: Value and Respect your self WORTH
by: maurice

Alex: great you found Darlene's site: Let it be a new beginning with new dreams and new horizons for you to reach: Your Life NOW is the most important take charge of your own destiny: You'll be fine: Sadly Alex: to free yourself of those horrible flash backs you'll have to get real help: Begin to trust yourself to trust others especially counsellors or kind understanding adults be they males or females: Great you are in education: In boarding School well that is where you find yourself now in your teen and adolecent years: Always Believe in yourself: Love, Value, understand and respect your whole self mind, heart and body especially your sexuality: Gay or straight one has to make a sense of oneself in a wholesome and holistic complete person: Your sexuality is only a small aspect of your whole being: getting to know the true you (self) is so so natural and real for all of us human beings: Your Uncle gave you the wrong start as an innocent child/boy to understanding your childhood and growing to value and respect your body and it's maturing in a beautiful natural way: I am Gay is very empowering of one's knowledge and valueing of one's sexuality: You have been abused by two males: who hurt you greviously: building you own self esteem: Self worth will take time: One deffinite and sure way is to let go of the awful and bad flash backs of those memories: All relationships/friendships are built on trust, reverence, value, honesty and resepct for each other: That so called head boy that you fancied did you a wrong by taking advantage of your fear of what you told him your uncle did to you: Alex you'll be fine maybe even priminster one day: NOW is the time to get your life in order: Stay in education, get the benefits of that and the rewards: Then be in control of your life and destiny: stay safe: Be safe: One sure way I know you will change for the better your attitudes towards trusting other males and out look on your own future as a Gay wonderful male: Is to have a healthy mind in a healthy body: get out there in the playing fields of your college taking part with the other students young men in team sports and sporting and cultural activities: You will make real and natural friends for life and you'll have many aquaintances who will value and respect for yourself irrespective of your sexuality: They will see you as a complete person; Highly intelligent, gifted, tallented with leadership qualities: That is why I ask you to: AWLAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: now off having a healthy mind in a healthy body; get into some form of counselling you'll put alot of your feelings into perspective for yourself when you do:

Apr 03, 2011
you're better than that!
by: Anonymous

I don't mean to be rude, and I applaud you for sharing your story and I hope you seek help, but as for your boyfriend, he is not worth your time and effort, find someone who truly loves you and be happy. You deserve better than him.

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