No Pass For Child Abuse Victims

by BROKEN HEALED BY LOVE
(USA)

In reading this, please the best is in the end, and reason for letter is to empower the abused. first off what some call abuse, i call a lack of respect to the rules then scream abuse. why do i say this reading the stories tells it all only those who know abuse understand this statement. abused by birth parents, givenup to aunt & uncle by 4yrs old, abuse went from bad to worse.


lets really talk about abuse, instaed of crying because someone cared enough to give rule. forced to eat my own puke,punched in stumic so hard i coughed up blood, throwed out side over night in florida with moskeetos eating me up, things like i wish you were never born said to me over and over. take turns beating me, so bad i had blood come from my butt, this abuse before even 8yrs old trained me to do, not to be abused, by making others happy, this is a problem even today at 35

i spent the rest of 4 years tossed through the system over running away from abuse. so dont play games this stuff happen to me, and is my part of the story of abuse. yes i may have went through this abuse, its how you learn from it that can make a diffrence, you dont have a free card that gives you a pass for any wrong you do, this song makes me mad, i dont go and kill people or do crimes then bring my abuse card out and say ok let me go i blame my abuse as a kid for my actions. no, i say no, stop being the victim, and do something that empowers you to become the best person you can be if you went through abuse teach others how you over come being the victim, and for those possers acting as if they did no wrong and cps came and had taken the kids, for some it might be true but for most i call bs, i can tell, some one thats been abused can see through this lie so stop and let the real victims of abuse speak out, and the victims of cps given the power stuggle,i do understand, just know if you truely do nothing wrong to have this happen this should come out in court,if not, it might be over what you did not get into trouble for in the past. seek whats wrong with how you are not whats wrong with every one else, this blame game makes me sick my true abusers blamed my birth parents stating they did no wrong, so dont even try to rebute what i'm saying. this abused one learned from it something you might think about OUR OWN CHOICE IS IN ESSENCE THE ISSUE, FOR NOT EVERY ONE MAKES THE SAME CHOICE, ITS WHAT WE DO WITH THAT CHOICE THAT CAN MAKE A DIFFRENCE.

AS A BABY COMES INTO LIFE, ALL HAVE MADE IT THIS FAR BECAUSE SOMEONE GAVE SOME TYPE OF HELP TO US.

EVIL IS THE ABSENCE OF GOOD AND GOOD IS THE ABSENCE OF EVIL, THIS IS THE BATTLE EVERY ONE FACES.

CALL IT WHATEVER NAME OR SO CALLED BELIEF YOU WANT. FINDING THE TRUE SELF, BEING ABLE TO STAND TRUE TO WHAT THAT IS, NO ONE CAN DO EVIL IF TRUE WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE OF THE HEART AND SOUL OF LIFE IS LOVE. WITH OUT LOVE, THEN EVIL IS THE ISSUE MADE BY CHOICE OF EVIL INTENT, OUT OF THE LACK OF LOVE.

what, you dont get it, well lets look at this.

The act of blinding someone’s mind is bestowing lies upon them, making them teach or preach those lies to future generations.

Imposing oneself over others has been abused leading to countless amounts of horror or loss, provoking a system of control for gain, off the backs of others is the Fundamental problem with the world today.

Wisdom crushed by Forcing one mindset and destroying choice to find true wisdom is death of one’s mind.

Don’t like who I am, don’t want others to see my weakness. Looking how perceiving others makes insecure thoughts, leads into a trap that most are in. Lost, hiding, lying, acting, with out knowing, try fixing in other’s what’s wrong in self.

Hay this covers most every one, from leaders to children. Its not hard to see, denial acting desperately defending the lie they are living. I know I have. Who has not, finding out later how wrong the belief was. so wake up who you trying to lie to, it does not work to lie to the abused we've been lied to most of our lives, we should be able to see through lies about abuse. are you mad over me taking your abuse card well get over it i have and so has others that have been abused.

signed:BROKEN HEALED BY LOVE

P.S. you might say i dont understand well at 18 i ran from myself getting into things across the country theres not much you went through i have not sad to say, i am male and know how it feels to be raped as a kid, i do understand, next excuse you have is the lie your living wakeup and do something, i have.

i lost my child for not staying true to what was best, instead i gave in beleaving it would make my wife happy, so its my fault by actions taken, try as you will cant stop the truth even if it hurts thats why it hurts so cry beat a pillow get it all out, then put it down, stand up and say no more will i be a victim.




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Apr 15, 2010
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Apr 16, 2010
EMPATHY is what you are asking of us.
by: maurice

How right you are NO PASS FOR A CHILD ABUSE VICTIM. Agreeing with you is all I can do to, You have walked the walk, worn the T-Shirt suffered abuse all the way of your childhood/teen years: Only those you feel who have walked that walk of abuse can ematise with each other. You have said no truer word. But thankfully now we have trained and professional people who listen to our abuse story. though they have not suffered abuse they sure can hear our story. can relate with th times it happened. can understand the reason no one listened back then. Not taking from your sincere heartfelt telling of what happened to you in abuse, I was never raped as a male, I was sexually abused, I was physically abused and that in turn made it emotioan abuse. The pain/hurt attached I can empatise with happening another. A small number of males have told me in trust that they were raped. Only then was I educated as to what male rape was all about. escruiciating pain is all they could explain it was for them. I guess then I could understand what they were forced through as an innocent child/teenager. Have you ever thought of counselling??? if not I encourage you to seek out some form of counselling. You will rlieve yourself of alot of the pain you still carry. You are one very special, beautiul, wonderful Male (Man) at 21 you have a full life to be lived. There is life after abuse. Don't bury your head in the sand because you feel nobody can empatise with you for all the absue that happened to you. All you need for a start is to trust yourself, then trust one or two who care alot about you. Let them hug you, cuddle you LOVE YOU. I can, I will, I must because I am WORTH IT. Always believe in yourself.

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