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More abuse in the news and family issues

by Hayley
(Birmingham, UK)




I'm back again, and ready for a fight against my brother's ex girlfriend. First off though, the latest wave of abuse to make the news, the horrendous incidents in Plymouth, Devonshire.

A nursery owner has been found guilty of abusing little kids as young as 12 months at the nursery, and keeping images of the abuse being carried out. She has been asked to list all of the children that she has harmed, and their photos sent to two other paedophiles - who have both been convicted and sentenced - for their equally sick entertainment.

Another nursery in Nottingham has been closed amid abuse worries following a number of children suffering injuries that cannot be explained with and degree of plausibility.

A nursery in Redditch, Worcestershire has also been closed due to the concerns that a child was handled in rather a savage manner. He/she was allegedly grabbed by an arm and dragged somewhere.

It appears that some people think nothing of treating vulnerable young children like toys that they can merely grab and drag as if they are nothing more than things that are in the way or possibly causing annoyance to adults. Unfortunately this is how my oldest niece is being treated by her mother, being used almost as a toy that she doesn't want to share with anyone else.

This woman is my brother's ex girlfriend, and seems intent on trying to hurt myself, and my parents just because she is no longer with my brother. What my brother did to me was utterly horrendous and took away eight years of my life. While he should be made to suffer for what he did, I would have preferred a substantial jail sentence to what he is going through now. Oh the things that a five-year-old can tell people when her mother isn't around. Little does that little girl know just how much she has helped her daddy to get more access to her. As long as he agrees to see her in a public place.



When this woman arrived at the agreed meeting place with her son J who is 9 and S who is my adorable little niece, myself and my dad went over to greet them. All the woman could do was palm S off, "go on then" as if she didn't even want to know the little girl. That is when S talked, and the more she said the happier I got, as it was brought to light the behaviour of her mum and how she was being stopped from knowing that there are two grandparents and an auntie who are all besotted with her, as is her father.

I had better go now as this computer seems to want to truncate my time rather quickly. Hang on in there everyone, you can survive what has happened to you as you are so strong.

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Oct 03, 2009
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Hayley:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I've thought of you several times throughout the past few weeks as I've read about the various child abuse cases in your area of the globe. Wondered if you'd be offering a post on any of them...an you have. Hope all goes well with your niece. Thank you for sharing with my visitors and me.

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Thank You, abuse finding go on an on.
by: maurice

Children are still vunerables as we find out from reading the papers and hearing the news. Hayley Thank you for keeping darlene and her visitors up to date with that Nursery scandal. Sadly we will be haering of similiar types of abuse until a foolproof system is found to screen those employed to care for the vunerable and the innocent child. Brutes are all one could refer to in this case of abuse. Great it has been detected. Darlene good to know you care enough to follow the news of abuse cases throughout the world. Sure your site is so powerful that it invites many to it to tell and share their story with the likes of me from Ireland others from Uk etc ah sure the world is a smaller place now. You've even made it smaller for us who were blessed to find your site and become family of loving and caring visitors to you and each other. Thank You. I admire you commirment and dedication to your site still evn with all your other irons in the fire and your book. No burn out now darlene or we will all find ourselves at sea.

From Darlene: Oh, Maurice, you put such a smile on my face. Not to worry about burn out...I'm driven. And just so you know, I'm actually writing several books right now. Some that are child abuse related, some that are speaker related, some that are more along the lines of positive thinking (for my coaching program). So yes, there are lots of irons in the fire. So I'm grateful to visitors like Hayley who keep my visitors up to date, and visitors like you who are so appreciative. Thank you to both of you. Must get back to my writing.

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Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir


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