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Girlfriend Sexually Abused by Father

by XYZ

I had a girlfriend for 2 years. She was from a nice family and everyone in her family were supposed to be very kind people. I and my girlfriend were spending lots of time together. We started visiting each others houses in no matter of time and started making up in bed.

After a year of our relation, we both loving each other to the core, I said everything about my past. But she said she didn't have any past.

Year and half later when I was not happy with her unusual behavior, she confessed me one day that she is not good person. She had sex with her father at the age of 11 and kept on doing it till he died when she was 20. After loving her for 2 years I was surprised by this, but still I managed to support her in all aspects. Problem with me now is that I can't sleep with her because I recollect all the things she had done with her father (and our relation started just before a month her father died).

I don't know what to do. Sometimes I believe that she must have killed her father. Sometimes it's like she must have slept with many guys as she is very addicted to sex and her father was an old man. I don't know what could have gone wrong with this girl. We are broke up now, but if I find her innocent then I am thinking of marrying her.

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