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Child Abuse Story of Story of Healing and Recovery From Paul1

by Paul
(United Kingdom)

I was sexually abused by my cousin in my youth (about 7 years old) and so retained certain problems due to this trauma - molestation i.e. fear, worry, panic attacks and anxiety, worry about how to perform sexually became the norm and depression too. I went many years and used to avoid sexual encounters because of fear/aversion, as it developed into a sort of phobic condition for me. Things got so bad I couldn't have sexual relationships because of this problem. Every time I had a sexual encounter, fear, worry and anxiety because of situation used to creep in.

My life became so depressed.

I went to the doctors, which wasn't much help either, as I was referred to a G.U.M (Genito-Urinary Medicine) Clinic, an N.H.S (National Health Services) funded organization (for all aspects of sexual health), and they're pretty useless.

So to put my life back on track I privately paid to see a sex therapist which helped me to deal better with my situation. Cavajet was also used for my erection difficulties and psychological impotence because of the effects of the abuse I suffered.

People can recover from abuse, so you're not alone.

I recommend psychosexual counseling and Cavajet impulse. Don't get fobbed off by doctors, clinics, etc.

Don't Give up.

You can be Saved - Pray for Strength

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Aug 31, 2009

The effects of sexual abuse can be all-encompassing...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You've very clearly shown how sexual abuse can lead to sexual dysfunction, Paul. I'm delighted that you've found healing for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Sep 01, 2009

how great and wonderful is the one who brings hope and good news
by: maurice

Good News and hope you have brought to Darlene's site and her many visitors Paul 1. Good on you for not quitting and for having the good sense that there was help out there for you in your abuse trauma. What hope you give each one of us by your telling of your story on Darlene's site. The written word can be powerful when read in the context of healing for oneself. Paul1 that is the that is the true message I am receiving from your abuse story. People can be saved from abuse, you're not alone ''Wow'' Paul1 what hope you give us all in that statement. Thank you. You can be saved, pray for strength. We all need the re-assurance of someone's presence in our lives either family or friends. We need to know we are never alone and that God is always with us. Through you sharing your healing from abuse story Paul1 you are that presence for me, Darlene, and all her visitors. A FRIEND. God is never too far away with people like you to remind us to pray for strength. Thank You. I feel very good in myself right now having read your Story. It gave me a huge uplift. Good on you Paul1. Always believe in yourself. Think Positive, act positive and be positive, live well, laugh alot, love much I can, I will and i'm doing it for myself right now. Love that wonderful and beautiful me person in the mirror. be always gentle and kind to that me. say nice uplifting kind words to that me in the Mirror. Era Go ON. you feel great after doing so.

Oct 01, 2009

Thankyou maurice and darlene
by: Paul1

Serious Sexual Disorders rarely get any better by themselves so its important people
seek Professional Help for them - they only get worse as time passes and so have far
Reaching consequences.

But it is never too late to seek help

People should Realise too that Doctors do not get any training in Sexual issues at
all so the only way the only Person who would be more knowlegable would be by seeing a
trained Professional like a Therapist.

From Darlene: You're welcome, Paul. And I agree with you. Doctors don't get training on sexual issues, so it is important to seek help with a therapist who deals with such issues.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Dec 16, 2009

for more information Darlene Check out :-
by: Paul1

From Darlene to Paul: Thank you, Paul. I'll check it out when I get some time.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 06, 2010

Some Bad some Good .....
by: Paul1

don't go to RELATE for counceling. i went there and Recieved a horrid attitude from the Staff.

Jan 07, 2010

One Bad or horrid experience is not the end. Don't Quit
by: Maurice

Hi Paul 1 2010 NEW NEW YEAR NEW BEGINNINGS OR IMPROVEMNET ON BEGINNINGS WE'VE MADE THROUGH THE YEARS BUT FAILED; Paul 1 I know, Darlene knows, her visitors know you ain't a failure. You're not a Quitter, You will not give up on yourself becaue ME is now the most important person for me to LOVE unconditionally and then in time pass on positive vibes of love to those I trust around me. Paul 1 Hug that unconditional LOVE into that wonderful and beautiful you. Mirror image work on it in these beginning days of 2010. I can, I will, I must, If you don't succeeed at first, what do you do Paul 1. You try again hopefully you have a greater choice of counselling agencies around where you are at. Have a healthy mind in a healthy body. get active be alive with like minded people into sporting or cultural activities even a walking group. Get out under the skies and leave the confines of your house and bed room. In other words Paul 1 get off your bottom and take action on Darlene's beig heartedness words of encouragement to you. NOW SAY I can, I will, I must, Just for me because I'm Special, I'm unique, There's only one me in all this wide world. ''WoW'' From Victim to Victory that Darlene's prove of the pudding after abuse.

Aug 07, 2010

thank you
by: Paul1

to the people who have replied is always appreciated.)

Aug 13, 2010

Due to moving House
by: Anonymous

Paul I have been unable to keep empatising with a good number for the past few weeks as I was moving house i am back to do so now: Yes, It is truly a great site of love: Darlene certainly knew what she was doing in setting it up: It is heart and soul uplifting reading and empatising with the pained people who share there story with Darlene and her many, many visitors, I have walked with a few during my time of leaving inbetween packing: Only yesterday a friend of mine who now lives in Denmark wrote that she is getting counselling for the effects of her abuse as a child: I have putr her in touch with this site: Keep loving the wonderful and great you Paul 1

Aug 14, 2010

Just to let you know
by: maurice

Paul1 I am not annoymous as I wrote on the 13th due to moving house that was me: I have come to know someone very special since empatising with you on Darlene's safe Have site; OK: I am glad I cleared that up for you Paul 1

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