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Child Abuse Story of Healing and Recovery From Vicki2

by Vicki
(Orlando, Florida, USA)




My Story: 
I am an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse, as well as mental, emotional, verbal, and physical abuse. I am 45 years old and in the past few years came to realize that the effects of the abuse must be dealt with. I prided myself for years on being an active, functional member of society; a self-reliant and self-sufficient professional, undamaged by the past. But I was lying to myself.

The abuse affected everything - my self-esteem, my views of the world, of relationships, of men in particular. The abuse started when I was 3, when I would have been, should have been, learning about life from the eyes of a loving family. My formative years were totally entrenched in the harmful affects of the abuse.

I am now in counseling and working my way through work books that are incredible. "The Courage To Heal Workbook, For Women and Men Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse", by Laura Davis. Also, "The Courage To Heal, A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse", by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis. If you were the victim of abuse, or know anyone who was, these books are an incredible blessing.

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Child Abuse Story of Healing and Recovery From Vicki2

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Oct 30, 2008
Keep up the great work!
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You showed great courage, both in recognizing that you had to deal with the residue the child sexual abuse left you with, and in entering into counselling to help you with it all. Well done, Vicki, well done!

Thank you for sharing your story of healing with my visitors and me. Perhaps doing so will inspire others to seek of some form of counselling for themselves.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Jun 14, 2009
Need Help
by: Anonymous

I would love a copy of your book. Was Sexually abuse by my father at the tender age of 8, I am now 22. Thought I had gotten over it but by some strange incident it has come back to haunt me. I need some peace and closure. I am writing this with tears in my heart. Thank you.

From Darlene: Anonymous, Vicki didn't write the book she was referring to. But if you go back up to the last paragraph of the story she wrote, the author and title of the book (and workbook) is there. I do hope they will help you deal with the sexual abuse you suffered—and continue to suffer—through. You too are showing great courage by deciding to deal with your abuse. I wish you all the best.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir






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