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Child Abuse Story of Healing and Recovery From Lisa

by Lisa
(Tennessee, USA)




I had been sexually abused by my older brother, older than me by almost ten years. It started when I was very young, I mean like toodler aged. I am not going to go into detail too much, but he made me do things to him that no small child should have to,he also did things to me. Anything you can imagine short of penetration, that's the only thing he didn't do. It went on for years until the age of 8 when he married and moved out. My mom or dad never knew until I finally told around age 11, because he had done the same thing to my older cousin, except with her there was penetration. It has been hard for her and me me being 38 now and her 40. It has made me and my cousin very close more like sisters because of this horrible thing he done to us, she gained a lot of weight being a stress eater, and I turned to drugs. We have both came a long way. I have been drug free now for years, and she saw a therapist, and I did as well. I was diagnosed with ptsd, and medication and therapy has helped, but neither one of us can forget. I have forgave him just for my own sanity..but anything traumatic, is just hard to forget.




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Child Abuse Story of Healing and Recovery From Lisa

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Jan 04, 2012
Lisa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

First of all, congratulations on staying clean of drugs for years. Secondly, "forgetting" can't be the goal, because barring a major head injury or other form of trauma or some type of dementia, forgetting his highly unlikely. Moving forward in your life is about living in the Present moment, appreciating what you have in your life Now, and living your life from your Heart. The body doesn't know the difference between re-living a memory and actually living it for the first time. This means that the body's health is most definitely affected by the mind. Consider the work of Byron Katie in order to put what happened to you and your personal truth into perspective. Recognize that you are not what happened to you. Who You Really Are has nothing to do with what happened to you in your childhood. Choose to turn pain into power by helping others who have experience something similar to what you have. Doing so can help you along your own path of healing and recovery. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 08, 2012
SUPPORT
by: Rita M

I'm glad you and your cousin have supported eachother when you were younger and have gone for help.The 2 of you can be an example to others.
Rita M

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