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Child Abuse Story of Healing and Recovery From April

by April
(Location Undisclosed)




I too am a survivor of abuse. I had gone to many different therapists, group therapies and spoken to groups about shedding your blankets of darkness. My biggest help in my self-improvement was a series of life-changing events as I got older. I picked bad marriages and in those I got courage, self determination and a will to survive with each blow I received from them. I am blessed with my beautiful children, whom I love so much. By far the most healing came from writing and opening up to other people. Now this has also bit me in my butt sharing feelings with the wrong people to have them use it against me. But with each hurt, betrayal a new powerful lesson was learned. That I have already survived what I thought was the worst. The words they speak about me is nothing I haven't heard before by others or myself. You can not hit me any harder than I have been hit before. And no one can bring me any lower than the lows I have made myself before either. For in the end all my happiness, love, joy and peace come from me, down deep inside of myself. I have taken back my own power through realization that I had all the power in the first place. I am now in a place that I am truly happy and in love with life. I speak out for not only myself but everyone else. No one can take that from me.
Much love to you all
You too can have the life you want. If I can overcome all in my life and still wake up everyday happy and in love and face my challenges you can too.
April




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Nov 23, 2011
April:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The way we look at our Selves and our lives is the ticket to freedom. I believe that with all my heart. If we believe we're victim's, we continue to live in victimhood. If we believe we have power, then we take back the power that was lost. If we believe in our own ability to heal, then we can and will heal. The choice is always ours to make. And you've made that choice, April. Thank you for sharing your inspirational story with my visitors and me. Keep up the great work!

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Nov 29, 2011
opportunity
by: Jill

April,
Your story helps me remember that all those places where I still fear tripping and falling are an opportunity to notice and grow stronger from. Thanks.

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