Comments for Child Abuse Story From Uriah

Click here to add your own comments

Jul 03, 2010
 Uriah:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

First of all, none of what happened was your fault. Second of all, the fact that this happened to you gives you power over the care of your children. You can recognize the signs if they arise. Not to mention you know they need your attention and so you will give it to them and they in turn won't be vulnerable the way you were. Your children are NOT doomed to face what you faced because YOU are part of their lives. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Jul 13, 2010
 You do what you feel is right.
by: Dan1

First off I'm truly sorry for what happend to you as a kid. I guess i feel your pain too. Only I don't have kids yet so it could be a little different. You are right to feel suspicious about every 1 that comes around your kid. I know you want to protect your kid no matter what,but to try to give him space. Bond with him and talk to him so that way he will feel that trust and comfortness so he can go to you if anything happens (god forbid tho). The reason why I feel that that's important is because when I was abused, I had no 1 to go to, not even my parents. They never talked to me in that way where I trusted them in telling them what had happend to me or to just learn about sex. I still haven't told them and I prabably never will. I'm 21 now and that happend when I was 13 or 14. Your mom should of been more cautious of who was watching you. Not even a bit was it your fault. You were 7. All kids around that age are curious and interested in different things, sexual things being one of them. He knew how vulnerable you were and how easily you can be (for lack of a better word) "brainwash". Not until you were older did you realize what really happend. I'm sure you have a strong kid. And I know you'll choose whats right for him when it comes to protecting him from harm. Just as long as you're not too overprotective like Marlin from "Finding Nemo", your son will be fine. Your already the best dad in the world.

Wishing you the Best,
Dan1

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Write Your Child Abuse Story.

Return to Child Abuse Story From Uriah

Disclaimer: To the best of my knowledge the child abuse
stories on this site are true. While I cannot guarantee
this, I do try to balance the need for the submitter to be
heard and validated with the needs of my visitors.



E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...

Most Recent

RSS

  1. Converging Stolen Lives

    Jan 30, 18 01:13 PM

    There was a time and space I didn’t think about you, or your abuse. Where when I looked back at my life, I only saw normal things, a normal childhood.

    Read More

  2. A letter to one of the 13 Turpin children

    Jan 29, 18 11:33 AM

    A heartfelt letter by a former classmate that speaks to bullying and regrets. You'll find it on my Facebook group. I hope you'll join and get in on the discussion.

    Read More

  3. Dissociated From Abuse

    Jan 29, 18 11:00 AM

    I was sexually abused by my father from age 6 to 13, which stopped when I started talking about it during the day. The teenage brother of my best friend

    Read More

E-book: Victim To Victory

From Victim to Victory
a memoir

How I got over the devastating effects of child abuse and moved on with my life

Read more...