Home
Sitemap
My Blog
Awakening
OpenSpace
Child Abuse News
Write a Commentary
The Lighter Side
My Story
Statistics
C/A History
Emotional Abuse
      Types of E.A.
      Signs of E.A.
       Effects of E.A.
         - Bullying
      Stats for E.A.
Physical Abuse
     Signs of P.A.
      Abuse/Dis'pln
      Effects of P.A.
     Stats for P.A.
Child Neglect
     Signs of C.N.
      Effects of C.N.
     Stats for C.N.
      Poverty & C.N.
Sexual Abuse
      Definition S.A.
     Signs of S.A.
      Effects of S.A.
     Stats of S.A.
Sexual Abuse Victims
   Male Victims
     Female Victims
     V w/ Disability
  Disclosures
Sex Offenders
  Male S.O.
    Female S.O.
  Child S.O.
   Youth S.O.
   Incest S.O.
     Internet S.O.
Child Abuse Law
      Age-Majority
     Duty-Report
Intervention
Prevention
Stories of Healing
Child Abuse Stories
Exch w/ an Abuser
Visitor Comments
Letters from Readers
Link to this Site
Resources
FREE E-zine
Ask Darlene
Dating Violence
Privacy Policy
Site Search

Child Abuse Story From Unknown

by Name Undisclosed
(Location Undisclosed)

I am sixteen years old. When I was eight I was left in the care of two uncles. I thought I could trust them. They touched me in places a child should never be touched. Told me I could yell and scream all I wanted to. That no one was going to hear me. I cry every night wishing that it never happened. Sometimes I thought it was my fault that they hurt me in that way. But as I got older I came to realize that they were just sick. No child should ever have to go through that. Somebody needs to put a stop to all the abuse going around. For me it's too late. It's been too long so I don't have the physical evidence. So I have to deal with the pain of knowing that they are probably out there doing it to someone else.

Darlene's comments to this "Child Abuse Story From Unknown" can be found at Comments below this submission. Depending on system activity, there are sometimes delays in comments going live on my site; but rest assured, they do eventually appear. So if you don't yet see them, I hope you will return later to read what I, and possibly others, have written. I thank you for your patience and understanding.

Email addresses, phone numbers, home addresses AND website/blog URLs in visitor comments are STRICTLY prohibited, and could result in being banned from making further comments on this site.

Comments for
Child Abuse Story From Unknown

Click here to add your own comments

Sep 17, 2008
It's not too late to report...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Depending on how you look at this, it might not be too late at all. It is quite possible (but not necessarily so) that your perverted uncles will not be able to be prosecuted for the crimes they committed against you; however, report what they did to you anyway. When you make a report, it stays on record. If they are abusing other children (and they probably are, since sex offenders do not generally stop their molesting ways) your report could help those children in the future. A report from you could show a pattern of behaviour.

For the sake of your own well-being, I urge you to get some form of counselling. One alternative is to contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you were forced to endure. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And I hope you do decide to disclose.

Thank you for writing your story and for sending your all-important message along with it: to report abuse when it happens. Just don't for one second keep believing that it's too late for you.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Oct 02, 2008
I'M SO SORRY
by: Anonymous

I'M SO SORRY THAT SOMETHING HORRIBLE HAPPENED TO YOU. WE CANNOT ERASE THE PAST, BUT WE CAN USE IT TO BETTER OURSELVES. IT IS KIND OF DIFFICULT, BUT THE EVENT ALREADY PASSED. THE SCAR IS THERE, BUT YOU CAN BE THE BEST IN YOUR LIFE AND IN THE LIFE OF OTHERS. FOCUS IN THE STARS. BE ONE OF THEM. SHINING IN THE NIGHT. THE DARKNESS CANNOT STOP THE STAR THAT SHINE, AND WILL NEVER DO. I WOULD LIKE TO BECOME YOUR FRIEND.

Click here to add your own comments