Child Abuse Story From Timo

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Child Abuse Story From Timo

by Timo
(Switzerland)

When i was 8 the maid started abusing me. Complete unprotected sexual relations, many times a day for 3 summers and 1 winter. I actually convinced myself that i had AIDS, seeing that i had no idea of what/who she was doing when i was away. I did the test when i was 20. Today i'm 27, and the abuse constitutes the only sexual experience of my life. I feel locked-in, burried in myself, and faith and drugs have only a limited effect. I'm a typical loner, not many friends at all, and i get the impression that girls my age aren't attracted to me at all. I hate getting jealous and callous. I hate the anxiety and despair i feel when i'm around a girl i'm interested in. I feel trapped and damned.

I hope my message doesn't discourage anybody, but I needed to vent.

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Apr 16, 2011

Timo:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

To say that at 8 years old you had "sexual relations" with the maid is to imply that somehow you could consent. You couldn't consent to sexual relations. She sexually abused you; and that has left you with scars that have lasted throughout your lifetime. Please consider seeking out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of being sexually abused. And don't for one second allow people to tell you that just because you're a male and she was a female that somehow it was okay. Because what she did to you was not okay, and it will never be okay. What she did to you is criminal. Now you must deal with the aftermath. A professional can help you with that, and the lingering affects you now have with women. You didn't deserve to be abused. You're worth the help now that you have been, Timo. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Apr 19, 2011

Don't Quit: YOU be the winner: Always believe in yourself
by: maurice

Timo: You'll be fine: Always Believe in Yourself: I will: I can: I must: because I am WORTH it: Timo that maid did you an injustice she abused your innocence and your vunerability: She was totally out of order in sexually abusing you: She took control of your age and being a boy: Great you had the courage to check out you having aids fear: You received a positive result so let that be a strength to you; At 27 years you have a full life to live and build relationships: I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: That you are Timo: Counselling will put what you have written here on Darlene's safe site in perspective; Don't be afraid of it, it will do you a power of good; Have a healthy mind in a healthy body even a loner can have that Timo: Get out there taking part in team sports (you're only 27 years) being active and alive with like-minded people: Join groups that walk: play Golf: Climb Mountains etc: Timo you ain't finished being noticed by the opposite sex: Always believe in yourself: your new motto I Will: etc. Darlene sure gave you loving and encourageing words: affirming one's too: Live Well: Laugh Alot: LOVE much:

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