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Child Abuse Story From Tasha

by Tasha
(Illinois, USA)




Scared for my kids: 
My children are victims in my mind of emotional abuse. they have to hear everyday berating and belittling of me from their father. Im not having any help from Illinois law to protect them, we are in a custody war its effecting my kids any many ways, from acting out, getting bad grades and anxiety, not to mention extreme depression. Im scared! I want to protect them but i guess in the law its who ever has enough money and can lie better! Why cant they see the truth and help my children.




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Child Abuse Story From Tasha

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Oct 30, 2011
Tasha:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I don't have any resources to point you toward, other than what you've probably already resorted to: legal aide. And if you have, then you haven't been satisfied with the service provided. Perhaps another of my visitors can help you in that regard. What I will say is that while your children's father keep berating you in front of your children, don't stoop to his level. Keep everything as normal as possible within your home with your children. Try to deal with your emotional turmoil in a healthy way, a way that teaches your children appropriate methods of coping with stress and angst. And get your children whatever help they need to cope with their anxiety. Custody battles are very difficult on children, even when there isn't any berating of the other parent involved. I wish you and your children all the best, Tasha. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Oct 31, 2011
Ask
by: Anonymous

Ask for a child advocate, tell them your fears & they will defend your kids in court.

Tell them they are smart and wonderful everyday.

Hug them.

Good luck to you.

Oct 31, 2011
Believe
by: Anonymous

Went through the same thing with my ex-husband years ago the lasting affects of mental abuse are horrible. My daughter is now 12 and her dad is still using his mental tactics on her. Hang in there, I know it is frustrating but know that in the end the authorities know, they can see the real person, not the "role" he plays because to him it is a game. Good luck to you, just believe and tell your children how truly wonderful they are and that your love for them is unfounded and will last eternity! My prayers are with you!

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