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Child Abuse Story From Skyler

by Skyler
(Location Undisclosed)




It started as a young age but I will say what happened recently in the last year or so. Today I woke up knowing it would be a bad day but I didn't think this bad. I came home from school (I'm A fifteen year old male) and did my usual stuff of eating and homework and everything else I usually do. Well since it is winter my dad gets home earlier from work and today he got home around five. We were all sitting around the computer, me my dad and nine year old sister. My older sister was downstairs and my mom was vacuuming by us. My sister and I were talking about Christmas. She said something about Black Friday, trying to rub it in that I didn't go after asking for five years and she asks once and gets to go and I still haven't. I got mad at her and told my dad how unfair he was for taking her after I've asked for so long. He stared into the computer screen and didn't listen. I kept saying it wasn't fair and they treat us differently cause they always tell me how they treat us the same. Well he was getting mad at me and was saying "shut the f*** up you little f***ing p***y" and "go downstairs you c***". I told him to stop talking to me like that and he turns around and starts pretending to hit my face. He did this two times and on the third time he actually hits me. I was mad and hit him back because I decided that I'm not putting up with him anymore because he has hit me many other times. I then jumped up after I hit him knowing I was in for it. I got up and tried running but he was quick and was already up by the time I was up blocking the way out of the living room. I went to the couch. He came and sat on me. All 200 pounds of him on my 120 pound body. He then hit me over and over five or six times. He then tried to take my phone which I wasn't going to give him because I didn't think I deserved to lose it. He then hit me again and my mom came over then thinking that I deserve to lose it so she started helping him. They made me go downstairs to my room which I would've if they gave me my phone back but they said no and that I'm never going to give it back and all my presents for christmas are going back and then with the left over money they have from returning my presents they are buying my sisters more presents. That made me even more mad. I went to my room and slammed the door three times because I lost everything because he hit me. I've never been so mad in my life. My mom came down a few minutes later telling me they are sending me away because no one loves me here and they all want me gone. I didn't care anymore. They've told me this all the time so I knew they all hate me. So I just sat inside my room waiting for whoever was going to come to come. He never did. I went upstairs and asked when this person was coming to save me. My mom told me he isn't because she stopped my dad. I knew they never even called but age said I am going to a psychiatrist because I have a problem. This all happened tonight.


Many other things have happened recently including but not limited to:
My dad trying to throw me down the stairs
My mom pushing me down in the closet kicking me over and over
My sisters both kicking, scratching, hitting me but I do nothing back and still it's my fault?
My dad not letting me do my homework because he is to busy with PS3 In my room. He plays until every night until 11 not letting me go to sleep.
Getting called a "b***h" a "c***" a "p***y" an "a**hole" a "d**k" and just about any other name you can think of.
I have been kicked and punched by my dad.
My dad has been trying to shut the garage door while I was outside in the 10 degree weather in a T-shirt.
He has locked me out of the house in the cold.
My dad has told my sisters its okay if they hit me
My whole family somehow twists it around so it's my fault
My mom has left scars on my hands from her nails while she pinched me.
My parents think they know everything about me but they don't. They don't know anything. I try to talk to them but no one ever listens to me.
My sisters get away with everything. One time my older sister was on the computer I bought that I saved up for all summer. She was slamming thing on it and I told her to stop slamming it and I needed MY computer to do homework. She decided to get up and kick me square in the stomach while pinching me and scratching my arms. My dad was in there the whole time and saw the whole thing. I asked if he was going to get mad at her for attacking me. He said no because I deserved it. But if I would've done that to either of my sisters I would've gotten hit by my parents and lost everything. I get abused every way possible.




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Child Abuse Story From Skyler

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Jan 03, 2012
Skyler:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I understand the need to protect yourself and the need to strike back when being abused. I also understand the danger and the consequences of doing so as a minor child. Parents have all the rights, Skyler. The system gives them all the power. They can make choices for you that you will not like, even when they're the ones at fault. They can lie and make you out to be a troubled youth who needs protection from himself. Not to mention that you're at greater risk for more severe physical abuse. Your sisters have been "groomed" to bully and assault you without consequences; that in and of itself a form of abuse, one that will stay with them for the rest of their lives. The name-calling your parents engage in is terrible, and leaves some of the deepest scars. It is deplorable that your mother, your mother of all people, would tell you that no one loves you in your family. Despicable and crazy-making. I lived this myself, Skyler; I know what it feels like. Please contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You don't deserve to be abused, Skyler. You definitely deserve help for the fact that you are being abused. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 03, 2012
Get help
by: Anonymous

Call the police ... Your family should go to jail. Call 911 ..

Jan 04, 2012
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Skyler, you didn't deserve any of that; you only deserved love, protection, dignity and respect, all of which you were sadistically denied of. Oh, and those ugly names that they called you are nothing but lies. Mature, stable adults do not scream and yell at anybody; mature, stable adults don't call anyone names, especially their own precious children; mature, mature, stable adults don't let children abuse other children. Your parents are deeply troubled. Oh, and did I mention that they also abused your sisters by brainwashing them into being bullies? I really hope that you're out of that house now, and if not, they can and will keep brutalizing you and they've proven that already just by those nasty injuries that they already inflicted upon you. They have the mindset that you are to be submissive and obedient at all costs, so GET OUT OF THAT HOUSE NOW!!! Next time they lay a hand on you, please look into reporting them ASAP. Children are gifts to be treasured, not abused. You are not to blame for their sadistic behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse you. they got all the power and chose to misuse it over you, so tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

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