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Child Abuse Story From Scott

by Scott W
(Maine, USA)

I'm seventeen years old and I currently live with my girlfriend. About a year ago I was taken away from my mother. My mother was a twisted, wretched woman who enjoyed the psychological and physical pain of others. My father died in a car crash when I was thirteen. After my father's death, my mother went into a destructive downward spiral.

My mother became increasingly hostile towards me and my only companion, my puppy, Sunshine. She started beating Sunshine for no reason at all. Sunshine was everything to me. I had only had him for a little while, but we fast became friends. Meanwhile, my mother began to scream at me for no real reason. No matter what I did, she found an excuse to punish me.

As the days wore on, my mother became more and more abusive. Soon, there was no happiness left in my life. My mother pulled me out of school so she could have a tighter reign over my life. I was miserable. The only ray of hope I had left was my dog Sunshine. My mom started using drugs. It started with pot, but heroin quickly became part of the picture. I can remember many times watching my mother get high.

While she was high, she was the most abusive. She soon started to beat me. It was the most horrible part of my life when she first started to physically abuse me. My mom began to feed me less and less. By the time I was 15, I was barely eating enough to survive. I was reduced to eating rotting food from the trash. Sunshine became skin and bones, and could barely walk due to malnutrition. Still, he was my only companion in this dark time. I don't know how I would have survived without him in the beginning.

The day after my fifteenth birthday, as I was going down the stairs, I tripped and fell down. This caused me to break my leg. Instead of bringing me to the hospital, my mom just made a primitive brace for my leg, gave me some aspirin and sent me to my room. I cried for days out of pure pain, but still my mother did nothing. My leg never fully healed, and I walk with a limp to this day.

I clearly remember one day after finishing my chores, my mom got high on heroin. She stumbled over to me and began screaming at me about how worthless I was and why I should just die. I decided that the best thing to do would be to try and escape. I tried to make a dash for the door, but it had only been a few months since I broke my leg. I made it a few feet before I collapsed in pain. My mother came up to me and started to punch me and kick me.

"Obviously this form of punishment isn't quite working," my mother sneered. She snatched a steak knife from the nearby kitchen counter and grabbed Sunshine, who was whimpering near me, trying to comfort me. She rammed the steak knife into Sunshine's rib cage. He howled in pain. My mother threw poor Sunshine at me with a horrible grin on her face. My only companion in the whole world was covered in blood. It was the saddest moment of my entire life. I could tell that Sunshine was dying. I stroked him as tears welled in my eyes. Sunshine died an hour later in my arms. My last ray of hope had disappeared.

About a month after the incident, a policeman came to our door. We didn't know why he was there, but a few months ago I found out that my neighbor had suspected child abuse due to my screams being heard. The policeman asked me and my mother some questions and walked away. My mother suspected I had something to do with this, so she pounded me repeatedly in the chest. The bruises would last for months.

The next day, the policeman arrived again. This time he was there to take me away. That moment was probably the best day of my life. My mother pleaded to keep me, saying that it was all a big misunderstanding and that I got the bruises from falling down. For the first time in my life I summoned up the courage to stand up for myself. I told the police officer all the horrible, evil things she did to me. The police officer handcuffed my mother and drove us both away.

Because of the extreme circumstances, the court declared me a legal adult. My mom is in jail for six years (not long enough). I currently live with my girlfriend, who I met about six months ago. Besides Sunshine, she is the only person who really cares about me.

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Child Abuse Story From Scott

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Dec 20, 2007
So many crimes committed . . .
by: Darlene Barriere - webmaster

Six years is definitely not a long enough prison sentence for the heinous acts your mother committed, Scott. I'm in agreement with you there. Your mother tried to destroy any kind of independent and active thought in you. She purposely hid it from others, as was evident when she pulled you out of school. She refused to get you the proper medical attention when she wouldn't take you to a hospital after you broke your leg; probably because she knew that doctors would have to report suspected child abuse, even if on that occasion, your injury wasn't as a result of her abuse. Then, when she wasn't getting the reaction from you that she craved—complete and utter submission—she brutally stabbed the only loving friend you had, a helpless little puppy . . . she was truly evil and malicious. Her intent was definitely to scar you and completely control every aspect of you and your life. Thank goodness a neighbour had the common sense to report what people must have suspected for a long time.

Which begs the question: Where was the school in all this? Why didn't they do their part to report what they must have suspected was child abuse? At the very least, why didn't they further question the reasons for taking you out of school in the first place? And by the way, Scott, I believe she took you out of school not just to keep a tighter reign on you, but because she needed to hide the abuse she was inflicting on you from other watchful eyes. But no matter what, the school let you down, Scott. Everyone let you down, and they let you down criminally. It was their legal duty to report what they suspected. Beyond all the above, I'm dismayed at the fact that the police officer didn't remove you from the home the first day. Waiting until the second could have resulted in your death, not just your puppy's death.

I'm delighted that you are now in a safe place and that you have some support in your life. For the sake of your own health, I sincerely hope you are getting some form of counselling, Scott. You deserve that kind of help.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Dec 20, 2007
Pets and love
by: LLS Buffalo

Dear Scott,
Your story was terribly hard to read. I am so sorry you didn't have a good mom. I felt alone when my dad died and I was with my psycho mom. She too went ballistic and more abusive without him around. I'm sorry about your doggie. I have pets in my life now whofill a huge gap in my life. I hope you can get another little one to love and to love you. It will happen again and I hope you heal inside. Ask for people to help you with it. I would be miles behind if I hadn't got help. My story is posted Linda of Buffalo. Good luck.

Dec 21, 2007
How Sad
by: Francine

Scott, whatever your murderous mother did to you and how she took the life from your one and only best friend, your pooch named Sunshine, is extremely inconcievable! Well, I'm glad that the officer took you away from your hateful mother who was happy that she hatefully killed your poor, innocent dog, by hatefully stabbing it to death. I'm also glad that you are now living with someone you felt comfortable with, besides your dog, which is your girlfriend. You might want to try a lot of counselling. You never deserved to have a mom who treats you with anger nor hostility at all; you should've deserved a mum who would treat you with complete kindness. I hope to God that you might as well ensure that beloved dog Sunshine did not die in vain.

Dec 21, 2007
...And to Sunshine...
by: Francine

Oh, and by the way, Scott, may Sunshine rest in peace...I will pray for you and for Sunshine forever...

Feb 02, 2008
To Scott
by: Dana

i have a mama cat n 3 kittens... all males... if my mom did something like that 2 1 of them i would b sooooo mad @ her !!!!!!!!!! im glad ur g\fs w\ u now.... she is soooooooo sweet 4 doin that!

Mar 05, 2008
I am so sorry
by: Beth

scott-im so sorry matters had to end up like this. only 6 years is not enough for a person like that. Im glad now that you have someone that cares about you and that you are hopefully happier. That day must of been truly devastating to you. I am so sorry. That was really bad of your own mother to do and she is getting only part of what she deserves. i am sorry again. Sunshine, rest in peace

May 12, 2008
Scott, Im So Sorry..
by: Amber

I am so sorry for the pain and torture you had to go throug, Scott...I hope your life is tons better now. :] May God Bless You!

With Lots and Lots of Love,
Amber

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