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Child Abuse Story From Name Undisclosed26

by Name Undisclosed
(Location Undisclosed)

Wish Daddy was nice then like he is now: 
My dad had some issues while I was growing up. I remember him always yelling at my mother...not too long ago I was watching home movies and came across one of Thanksgiving in 1986. I was 6 at the time. My mother hadn't done something right again. My father was so mad that he sat there the whole meal just staring at my mother. It was always like that. I have no idea why my mother stayed with him, but after learning how my mother's parents treated her while she was growing up made me understand. She was used to being treated like crap.

Back to my father, I remember one time when my older brother and I did something wrong. He got his paddle out and hit my brother so hard that he broke it.

We would have to get in the way between my mother and him all the time so he wouldn't hit her. One time, I was around 15, he got so mad at her over me and I was not going to let him touch her so he grabbed me by the neck and slammed me in the wall and held me there, yelling at me with his face an inch from mine.

I have many of these stories.

My father and mother are still together but he has changed. I wish he was the way he is now when I was growing up. He is a great grandpa to my kids and my brother's kids. But I still hate him and always will. I will never be able to forget how my childhood was. I would never hit my kids no matter how bad they were or what they did.

I became a mother at a young age (16). I know that I was looking for a man to love me since my father sure didn't. I fell in love with a man that was 5 years older than me and wanted to have a baby. He also was crap but I kept my baby and she is 12 now and I am making sure her life and my other children's' lives are all they can dream of. I know my childhood isn't as bad as a lot of others I read about, but it messed me up and my bros.




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Child Abuse Story From Name Undisclosed26

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Oct 30, 2009
I congratulate you on breaking the cycle of abuse...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I hope you can find a way to heal from your abusive past. You don't deserve to live your life full of anger and hate. You deserve to be free from that. A counsellor might be able to help. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Oct 30, 2009
Your dad has problems
by: Anonymous

Your dad has lots of problems and he really needs help...but you need help, too. Have you guys tried counselling?

Nov 05, 2009
child abuse hater feels for you
by: child abuse hater

all tho ur story isnt as bad as others it dosnt make a difference it is still abuse to a child and i am a strong hater to anyone who harms a child.

i feel sorry for u because u havnt had the best up bringing but atleast u can show your child a good start to life.

i hope u and your child have a great life together, and remember child abuse hater is by your side all the way.

child abuse hater is a strong believer and believes all people can over come any bad parts of there life.

Nov 10, 2009
Always believe in yourself. Don't Quit
by: maurice

Undisclosed26 your level of abuse is abuse on you Your the most important child/humanbeing ever birthed don't you ever forget that. Sadly you were birthed into and abusive family not of your doing. So no blame there. Darlene is so ever as gentle and understanding and indeed loving that she gives the best of words of encouragement to you, me and all her many visitors. Undisclosed 26 it is great to know and be aware of that she never lets a story arrive on her website without her scrutiny, attention, She takes time writing her thoughtful comment to each one and I am nearly certain she calls from on high to guide her. Take note of her comment to you, act on it,Always believe in yourself. don't quit ever. remeber when you feel you are at your lowest ebb the only back is UP. The two other comments are truly from their hearts too as is mine. We want you to be happy, We want what is the best for you. It is ever so encouraging to read that you are going to make sure your children will never suffer abuse. relate well with them, build a love and a trust between you that they will tell you everything. Trust them, then they will trust you. I like child abuse hater words to you. I quote, I hope you and your child have a great life together and remember child abuse hater is by your side all the way. Re-read her comment it is powerful. Behind abuse hater I detect on very wonderful caring loving human being with integrity and wisdom learning from her/his abuse. Know I likewise want truly what is the best for you and your children. Always believe in yourself

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