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by Name Undisclosed
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I never thought my story was important untill now. When i was 13 a friend of the famly started to touch me and rub his member on me. Then anothe friend of the family was staying with us. He was touching himself in front of me and asked if i wanted to touch and taste it. I said yes not knowing that he was doing a bad thing. After that i started to become very sexual and wanting to have sex a lot. I even stated to have feelings for my father and my step-father. I can't get help because i don't have any money so i am forced to suffer slientley.

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Dec 13, 2011

To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It's not unusual for victims of sexual abuse to become promiscuous, and to go beyond that and search for love in what amounts to self-destructive forms. First and foremost, stop blaming your Self for what happened. Understand that the choices you did and didn't make as a child were as a result of enduring child abuse. Recognize that you are deserving of dignity and respect and true love, and then start by treating your Self with that dignity and respect and true love. I suggest you look into your community for various victim resources that might be available to you. Failing any available resources, check out your local library for books that promote healing. Byron Katie's book Loving What Is or Colin Tipping Radical Forgiveness are two titles that can put you on the path of healing and recovery in a way that requires you keep an open mind. You don't have to sit idly by and suffer...unless you choose to. Take back control of your own life. Take back your power. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Dec 13, 2011

counselling
by: My Two Cents

There are self help books for survivors such as "the courage to heal" and its workbook which can be found at the local library.

If you live in a city with a university that trains social workers or psychologists, it is sometimes possible to access free or minimal cost counselling where the students counsel you under the supervision of professors.

And, if you are employed you might have access to what is called "employee assistance plan" or eap. This might also be available to students (depends on your school).

The only thing about student counsellors and the eap option, they tend to be short to medium term, say one to six months in duration; but if you want a place to start, those are some options. I hope one of them helps.

Be well.

My Two Cents.

Dec 15, 2011

believe
by: Anonymous

You r not to blame! U r a child,u deserve more in life. Be true to yourself n love yourself! I wrote my story n feel so much better! Believe in u, love u!!! U can do it.....it will take time but u can do it!!!!BELIEVE

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