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Child Abuse Story From Name Undisclosed111

by Name Undisclosed
(Location Undisclosed)




Too embarrassing: 
When I was six my sister who name will not be said hit me for no reason then when ever my parents left she hit and hit and hit me until there was red on me.And when I told my parents (No Telling) My sister said that I was a lieing and my parents said are you lieng I said no and they you better not be.And when I was 11 she told me that I was ugly and no would like me and I would die alone i was fat im stupid she kicked my dog when my parents where gone to I'm 12 now and she still dose that stuff occasionally but, my father wasn't abuses om neither was any one in my family so I was never sure where she got it. I don't wanna get her sent to jail or anything like that but life before that was accally pretty good carefree. I just wanted my story to be heard. And for me to feel like I'm not the just a brown head glasses ADHD 12 year old little girl.




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Oct 18, 2011
To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

First of all, you have nothing to be embarrassed about. Second of all, your sister needs help with her anger. Whatever is troubling her she is taking out on you. That won't change as long as you keep the secret. You didn't say how old your sister is...if she's still a minor child (not yet a grown up), she very likely won't be sent to jail for what she's doing to you. You need to talk to someone, otherwise she could seriously hurt you. Talk to a school counsellor or a trusted teacher. I suggest you contact one of the hotlines listed on my stories page, depending on where you live, in order to talk to someone confidentially. You don't deserve to be mistreated. You definitely deserve help for the fact that you are being mistreated, and that your parents aren't stepping up to ensure you stay safe. Call one of the hotline numbers. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Oct 18, 2011
Tell someone
by: Cassidy

If you don't want to feel like that anymore than you should tell someone you trust. Now obviously your parents don't believe you which isnt right but you can tell someone else like a doctor,teacher,principal,aunt,uncle,grandparents. Anyone you trust because if you don't you won't feel good about yourself and start to doubt everything you do which isn't healthy. Your sister is the one who should be embarrassed not you. She's the one who is hurting their sister and her dog. All you need to do is tell someone you trust.

Oct 18, 2011
The Horror
by: Anonymous

I can't believe that your parents would abandon you to the so-called care of that sick, sadistic monster of a sister...how dare they! The path that she and your parents chose is inexcusable. Oh, and she is wrong. You are not stupid; you are smart and articulate. You are not unlovable; you are lovable. You are not fat; you are not ugly; you are beautiful, so never believe any of the lies that she is spewing. Oh, and kicking a dog is what I'd like to call Animal Cruelty because animals have feelings too...and abusing animals is just as wrong. Anyway, you are not to blame for her sadistic, ignorant behavior; she is to blame (and so are your parents for running away from you all the time instead of protecting you from her). She had all the power and only misused it over you, so please tell someone you really trust and keep telling until he/she will finally listen to you and help you.

Dec 09, 2011
Been there
by: Anonymous

I was abused in a similar way by my brother, who is five years older ( I am female). He beat me up constantly and emotionally abused me. The abuse happened in my tween- teen years, and it has caused me a lifetime of problems that I don't think I can ever fix (which ultimately led to psychiatric problems). i believe my brother suffered/s with guilt which led him into alcoholism (he is now recovered and finally apologized for all he put me through). Please tell your pediatrician or school counselor about this. Your sister needs help. My brother was tormented at school & possibly had other trauma that he has never spoken of that caused him to lash out on his easiest victim-me. Your sister is taking out her inner turmoil on you and will one day regret all that she is doing now to hurt you, and you and she still have time to develop a close, lifelong sibling relationship that is free of abuse.

Hugs- you deserve love and protection from your sis

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