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Child Abuse Story From Name Undisclosed11

by Name Undisclosed
(Michigan, USA )




Fatherly Abuse: 
I was 7 years old when my father really started to show more signs of the abuse, but it actually started when I was 5 years old. I am 18 now, and he's out of my life for good.

My father seemed like an average guy. He liked sports and cars, and that male ego I got from him. Hint: I'm a male.

My mother was always at work so my father took care of me most of the time. Most of the time I only saw my mother on weekends. My mother worked hard and long hours because my father's place went out of business, so he became a stay at home dad. I liked it at first because we had fun together, but eventually it started to get stranger and I didn't really bother Mom with it because she was always tired and I just though it was nothing. But eventually my mother had to get two jobs so she was gone more and more. Eventually it got worse and worse.

And then it happened.

It was night time and there was a big storm outside and I got scared so I went in to my parents' room and asked if I could sleep with him (bad choice). I still also had night terrors. So I asked him if I could sleep in their bed. My mother was away for the night on business—she would be back about 6:00 a.m. she'd said. At about 4:00 a.m. or so he started to get a little too friendly, making me feel weird. He got up to go check on something. I tried to go back to my room, and then he eventually came back upstairs and into his room. About 5 minutes later he asked me to come in there, and so being the very scared little boy, I I went to see what he wanted. And then he shouted and locked the door behind him (it unlocked only from the outside of the door with a key...the reason for that was because the safe was in their room too. Then he pushed me onto the bed where there were straps and cuffs. He ripped my pj's off of me then strapped me down to the bed so I couldn't leave and then the bastard! started to molest me. I told him to stop over and over and over again but he didn't stop. I was crying and kept on asking for him to stop. He never did. He said it would be over soon, to just "enjoy it," he said.



My mom got home early, about 5:15 a.m. or so. When she came up, neither of us heard her, and then she started to unlock the door. There was music so you could barely hear anything but I just barely heard her unlocking the door. When she opened the door to her surprise she saw what was going on and tried to call the police. He didn't let her get that far. He started to hit her, telling her not to call the cops. Luckily, our friends next door called the cops for D.D. (domestic disturbance). They arrested him and now he's in jail and I never want to see that bastard again. As far as I'm concerned he should go to hell and rot there for what he did to me and my mother.

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Feb 19, 2009
Jail is where is deserves to be...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm very glad you're safe now and that your sex offender of a father is in jail. I also hope you are in some form of counselling in order to help you deal with all the emotional turmoil. You didn't deserve to be sexually assault. You DO deserve some help getting through the residual of the assaults.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

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Feb 19, 2009
I Strongly Agree!
by: Linda

I can see how angry you are at this horrible man. I think rotting in hell is too good for him. The man obviously crawled out from under a slimey, rock. I'm glad you got away from him. He should be locked up somewhere away from children.I hope you know what he did wasn't your fault. The man was a coward and couldn't measure up to what a real man is. He was resentful of your mother being the sole supporter and was using you to hurt her for his lack of support. He could have gotten another job. This is just my opinion, I have seen a similar situation with my sister's husband, He stayed home and sexually assaulted his daughter, while my sister worked nights. He is still a low-life bastard and my sister is still with him. Their daughter grew up "damaged" on heroin, crack, crystal meth and other drugs. The last I heard she is in jail and looking at prison. She told my sister, but she refused to believe her over him. I hope you find the help you need to get over that malicious sexual assault you had to endure.......God Bless You.

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