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Innocence Cruelly Stolen:
I remember that horrible day well now ! i was 11 yrs old and my friends father raped me . i was left alone with him in that house , and i still say the mother knew what my fate would be ! i did tell her on her return to the house , but she said she would not tolerate lying in her house , and threw me out . i did not tell anyone , even my own mum . he told me he would kill me and my family if i told . i am now nearly 47yrs old , and i have been to the police , and currently waiting for a trial date . the brain is an amazing piece of equiptment, i stored all that pain away somewhere and tried to carry on . but since the disclosure i have really struggled to face it . luckily i have had amazing support from the police and therapist , so i will get there . i would urge anyone that has been raped to tell the police . it does not matter how long ago it happened either , there may be others it has happened too , in keeping silent about it , we give the abusers a safe enviroment to carry on ! love and best wishes to all who have been affected , and i hope you all find peace xxx

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Sep 14, 2011

To Name Undisclosed:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Keep your head held high. I'm so proud of you for being so courageous, for not just reporting, but for following through with a trial. Reporting historical child abuse for the purpose of prosecution is not available to all survivors of abuse. It all depends where the abuse occurred. I'm delighted that you have a strong support system in place. I will however caution that even though you're taking this to the courts, there is no guarantee that justice will be served. If justice is not served, always remember that you KNOW the truth, and that just because the system failed you doesn't mean it didn't happen. Lean on the support system you have in place throughout this lengthy and difficult process. And know that you have the truth on your side, no matter the outcome. You did a huge service to the community by taking this route, because now this abuser is much less likely to abuse someone else, possibly for a very long time, if not forever. You can be SO proud of that. Like I already said, I'm sure proud of you. Thank you for sharing your story and your all-important message with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Sep 15, 2011

Your the very best: Take one day at a time: Live the NOW Time
by: maurice

The truth you know: It happened to you: That Beast took advantage of you when you were only a child, innocent, vunerable at at his mercy in whatever he wanted to do to you: It was not your fault: I am not to blame: In recent times I have been sharing intimately with my female friends of all ages: The worse thing they all fear about is that some one would rape them or their children be raped: Each one said that is the great fear they all have lived with since very young: The Beast and the B''st''d that did it to you: Beautiful and wonderful woman behind Undisclosed 109 Be brave, Be strong and I sincerely hope you are successfull: Please read and heed Darlene's comment to you: Her heart speaking to yours: She is one true remarkable relationship Lady: genuinine and sincere, loving and understanding for each of her visitors: Her empathetic heart is LOVE: What I would do to any one who rapes the innocent child vunerable adolecent I can't say here out of total respect for Darlene and her big family of visitors: It would not be pleasant and I could end up inside myself: Great you found Darlene's site to open your hurting and paining heart to: Your truth will set you free: But be gentle and kind with yourself: Love that beautiful body of yours; Soothe it with the cream and oils available for that purpose: Hug and cuddle it from time to time saying I LOVE me: I'm amazing The Architec of My Own Destiny: Live well Laugh alot: Love much:

Sep 15, 2011

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by: Anonymous

I can't believe that your mom would kick you out of the house for turning to her for help for the fact that this sick pervert chose to offend you...how dare she! Shame on her for running away from you all the time and kicking you out instead of protecting you from that brute! I'm just as disgusted by her reaction towards you being offended by that dirty excuse of a man; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. Oh, and I'm glad that you told because you deserve help for the fact that you were offended.

Sep 17, 2011

thank you
by: Anonymous

hi , i must just say thank you to all the replies , start of trial date is 31st oct , i am getting more nervous everyday , but i know i can do it , also this man has already been convicted for rape in the past ! i must also add that it was not my mum who kicked me out, but the abusers wife . love to all x

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