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Child Abuse Story From Munch

by Alysia
(Andover, England, UK)




As far back as I can remember, my father sexually abused me. I think it started when I was around 4 years old. Most nights, he would come to where I slept. My brothers and sisters were all in the house, sleeping. It really hurt and still does.

At the age of 9, I was taken into care because my brother had made a statement about abuse. Life got harder from then on. My father told me to run away from the home I was in. He would give me money, and told me that what he did, all Daddy's did to their children. I had to run away. If I didn't, he told me he would kill my mother and one of my sisters that I was closest to. He abused me every time I ran away.

Then my brother started to abuse me. If I ran away and my father couldn't pick me up, my brother would. I was also physically abused. I remember one time, my brother wacked my head off a brick wall and then started to kick the crap out of me. He sexually abused me. His friend did the same, but then I passed out. I didn't go home until the next day because of all the pain I was in.

I am down in England. I lived in Ireland before. I still get all the nightmares. My life will always be different to that of my friends. It will always hurt me, and I hope to live on. Life is very hard, and I can't believe someone would do all this to a young child.

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Jan 07, 2008
You need help for yourself...TELL someone
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Alysia, you did not say if you are still being sexually abused by your father and your brother. If you are, you must tell someone, someone who can put an end to the abuse. You do not have to live this way. The threats your father has used on you are just that; threats. Threats intended to keep you his sexual slave. People like your father are cowards. They pass along idle threats to vulnerable children and youth who don't know any better. But you know better, Alysia.

You didn't—DON'T—deserve to have all this happen; it wasn't—ISN'T—your fault. You deserved to grow up in a loving and nurturing and supportive home, a home with a mother and father who were dedicated to keeping you safe from harm, a home where your brother did not physically and sexually abuse you. You were betrayed and abandoned on all fronts. I strongly urge you to get some form of counselling, Alysia. You are too precious not to.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Jan 09, 2008
we are all linked to abuse in pain
by: ros

dear Alysia
hello my heart went out to you i wish to help you on the bested leavel i can yes i was abused as well and i found this site from darlene, every day i live in pain and when i come in here and read story from other peolpe it seems to help me with the pain i carry i also have angels card called DAILY GUIDANCE FROM YOUR ANGELS orecle cards,,i take a card every day more so when i have nightmares and i read one it guilds me through my day and i seem to be able to find the strength to carry on , it was wrong and painfull what they did to you, have you seeked help in any way , would be good to do so if you havent already , Us abuses need to find a way to take out lifes to a differnt leavel and not sit were we have been , it would be good to contact those that have helped me with there comments but this site i will tell you is amazing site i feel the angels have lead me here and i feel you will find hope love power and stength to carry on with darlene site take care i wish you the bested ros

Jan 15, 2008
Hold you head high
by: Anonymous

It is hard to fathom that people can be that evil and purposly hurt a young child. What happend to you is incomprehensible. Remember that you are a person who deserves the best in life. Try and rise above what your father and brother subjected you too. They are sick men who deserve to rot in hell. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't let those two losers ruin it. Please seek counselling and surround yourself with people who you can trust and who treat you with respect. Always remember that you are a person who has the right to happiness, love and respect!!! Those men should be in jail for what they did to you. Don't let them drag you down. Stay strong. Hold your head high and walk through life knowing you are a deserving of all good things!!!

Mar 31, 2008
God Bless You
by: Sophie

I would like to say im sorry for what happend to you as a child. I know that nothing i say can help erase the past. What you went through no one should have to go through. May God bless you and watch over you.

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