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Child Abuse Story From Milly

by Milly
(USA)




when i was young, about 6 or 7, my mom started drinking alot and she divorced and got a new boyfriend, at first i was happy because that would mean that she would stop drinking, but one time, mom was out and i was outside playing, when he told me to come inside so he could search for "ticks" he made me undress and sit on my bed and spread my legs and kept sayin that he is cheking for ticks and had to check all over my body, the he started touching my vulva and i was so scared and it went on for so long and he kept repeating that he was cheking for ticks. and then when i wasabout 12, he always told me that it was his job to bath me and he alwaysed rubed my private parts for an expecially long time. and he used to waked me up every morning by pulling my shirt right up and rubbing my private place. later on, he didnt bath me any more, but he'd wait for me everytime i finish and told me to take my towel of and give him a hug, in the end i felt so scared and i ran away, but i didnt have enough money and later on, i went to live with my auntie.




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Child Abuse Story From Milly

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Aug 21, 2011
Milly:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you were able to get away from that sex offender and from a mother who seemed either unwilling or incapable of keeping you safe from harm. I hope that you are still in a safe place. Just remember that what he did to you was not your fault. Fault lies solely on the shoulders of this sex offender because he chose to offend you. You did nothing wrong, nothing to deserve it. You deserved to be treated with dignity and respect; you received neither. If you haven't already, please consider some form of counselling in order to deal with what happened to you, and in order to deal with the betrayal and abandonment of your mother. Stay safe, Milly. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Aug 22, 2011
the vunerability of a child/adolecent
by: maurice

Oh Milly: you were so beautifully innocent yet aware that you were being sexually abused by that beast of a man and had mother who did not love and cherish you and protect you from his molesting hand and doings: You are one very brave young woman to have searched for and found Darlene: Read her loving comment to you personally Oh yes Milly she wants you to be the winner over those sicko's of adults who made your tender years of innocence unreal: un-natural: Your growing up as a child was taken from you: You are a big girl now and I sincerely hope you are in a safe place to begin living your life to the full: Start with the advice from her heart to you in her caring, affirming words especially when she tells you: It was not your fault: I am not to blame for what that beast of a man did to me: Taking away my precious dignity: Stay Safe: Be safe: One sure way Milly is to surround yourself with friends and loving people: Having a healthy mind in a healthy body will empower you to think positove thoughts about yourself and your beautiful body: So get out and about with like-minded people your own age and gender: taking part in TEAM sports and sporting and cultural activities: I have seen this being empowering in so many young people lives that I know it will do you a power of good too: Team sports are where you can share your gifts and tallents with others in a safe surrounding and build up your own self worth by helping others to likewise: Value and respect your own body and that of others: Be gentle and kind with yourself milly: Look in the mirror: hug and cuddle that beautiful ME looking out at you: my new motto will be I WILL I CAN I MUST BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT: ALWAYS BELIEVE IN YOURSELF: Milly read Darlene's comment to you: Take action on her words of loving advice to you: I will I can etc:

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