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Child Abuse Story From Mika

by Mika
(USA)

A house of horrors: 
I grew up in Louisiana with my father and my sister. The abuse started when My father lost his job and started drinking. I was about ten at the time and never even knew what a spanking was. I remember the first time my father "spanked" me. I was just comming home from school and layed my backpack on the couch. He saw this and grabbed me by the back of the hair. The sound of his belt unbuckling will haunt me to this day. He beat me unconcious. I woke up with my younger sister nursing my wounds.

As the years passed i took it as my duty to protect my little sister from our crazy father. The beatings were regular and very frequent. There wasnt a day that i dont remember having some sort of bruise on my body.

My sister tried to do her best to be good. She knew that if she did something wrong in his eyes i would take the blame for it and get the beating. I could not watch him beat my little sister and he rarely did.

Just as i thought nothing could be worse than this, a bombshell hit our family. Our mother came back. We hadnt seen her since i was about four and my sister was one. she disapeared and we never thought she was comming back. I was 14 the day she came back.

At first i thought it was great that my mother was home, but she soon showed what type of person she really was. She was just like my father. She was an alcoholic who loved to torment her children. Everyday she would make me and my sister strip down and stare at eachother while she held a knife up to us. My father would watch and laugh at our embarassment. I dont know how many times i pleaded with her to leave my sister alone.

The day everything changed was when i was 16 years old. My sister and i returned home from school and there was a man on the couch that we didnt know. My mother was standing over him with a michevious look on her face and a second man came up from behind me and grabbed me. I tried to escape but the man was very strong. He forced me to the ground and ripped off my pants. I knew what was about to happen and it gave me the worst feeling in the world. My sister was pinned to the ground by the other man and she too had her pants ripped down. The men proceeded to rape us then gave our mother money. this expierience has scarred me for life.

After this incident I decided that i had had enough i needed to get my sister and i out of that house. That is exactly what I did. While everyone was sleeping that night we snuck out of the house and walked to our grandmothers house 5 miles away. Child protective services ordered us to live there from that day on and our parents went to jail for various reasons.

I am now a twenty five year old male with a wife and a one year old daughter. I am happier than i have ever been in my entire life. My sister is also very happy she is going to college full time with a scholarship. She is going to college to be a psychiatrist. I am happy to say that my sister and i made it through our horrific childhood and i would like to thank darlene for allowing us to post these stories online.




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Child Abuse Story From Mika

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Feb 06, 2010
Mika:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Thank YOU for sharing yours and your sister's story with my visitors and me. How courageous of you to get you and your sister out of that horrific environment. I'm so glad you had someone to turn to, someone who could help you both. Thankfully, CPS stepped up and ensured you stayed out of that house of horrors. Regardless of the reasons, your "parents" ended up where they belonged. Jail is the best place for two such twisted excuses for human beings. They were undeserving of two beautiful children. Stay strong and stay true to yourself, Mika. Both you and your sister deserve to have a great life. You are such an inspiration.

BTW, you included a lovely photo of you and your sister, but I have a policy that does not permit personal photos in story submissions. This is to ensure the anonymity and privacy of my visitors. I trust you understand my position.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Feb 06, 2010
So many crimes committed...and a caring individual for a grandmother
by: Anonymous

Mika, I am so sorry that you and your sister didn't have good parents. Your so-called parents are twisted and cruel in their own ways of thinking. They didn't deserve to have such beautiful and wonderful children like you and your sister...but, most of all, you guys didn't deserve to have such uncaring, sick, sadistic, unloving, uneducated, ignorant, cruel and malicious parents...and I am glad that those beasts for parents are in jail because, like I said, they were and still are truly bad and sadistic excuses for parents to be so cruel to you guys. I am so glad that your sister is in a safe place like you are right now and that your wife and daughter are with you now because they are so sweet for doing that. Kudos to your granny as well because she, too, was very sweet for taking you guys in. But anyways, I hope that you and your sister tried counselling. I wish you, your sister, your wife, your daughter and even your grandma all the best.

Feb 08, 2010
You Are A Hero!
by: Linda

Mika, You are truly your sister's hero! You saved her. It Takes two special people to make good parents and yours were obviously "not" two of them. There was something terrible wrong in their heads, to stand by and let you be raped by strangers. They are going to bust Hell wide open! Prison is too good for them. Alcohol has a way of changing some normal people into beasts.But I think there was more going on in their heads besides alcohol. I'm so glad you have a family of your own and you are happy now. Your sister is going to be okay also, because the both of you sound like real strong individuals and my hat is off to you for getting the two of you away from those horrible parents! God Bless You, Mika......LOL....Linda

Mar 01, 2010
omg
by: Anonymous19

I am very touched by your story. That is awful that the women and man that made you could treat you like that. I think they should never see the outside of the prison and hopefully they are getting what they deserve in prison. I am so against child abuse. I wish they would put me in a room with everyone that has ever hurt a child one at a time. I have no remorse to what happens to those people and I wish them no type of happiness. I went through a lot as a child and i was lucky that my father raised his only daughter to not take it. I fought back and won. I am very happy you all are doing well now. You have to keep moving and look for the small things i life that make you smile

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