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Child Abuse Story From Melissa About a Nanny Now a Mother

by Melissa
(Pennsylvania, USA)




My neighbor now was from Penn State area. Before she had kids, she was a nanny for a family. The family has 2 young girls,one was about a year old and the other a toddler. The parents are working people and she lived with them. The mother had to go to a conference and decided to take the kids and the nanny with them out of town. The nanny was supposed to stay with the children in the hotel room and watch them while the mother was in conference in the same hotel. The nanny decided that the children were safe enough in the room while they napped and she took the rental car and left to go sight seeing. She didn't show up till hours later and the mother was furious that she left the kids alone and the kids were crying and need diaper changed and food. She asked the nanny to pack up and leave. The nanny has since then got married and have kids. After the first one was born and he was walking and running, they would have no idea he left the house and was wandering around. The father would walked around the estate and would find him playing in someone else backyard with the other kid. The parents were so proud that the kid 'took the initiative' to find a playmate. This happened many times. She would also dropped the kid off at grandma's house for 2 weeks at a time and not call till she's ready to come pick him up. Grandma could not handle the kid and he would always be dropped off at my house to play with my son from 8am to 9pm everyday for 2 weeks at a time and sometime sleepover. The kid had punched my son in the stomach, scratched up all my CD games because he lost the games and threatened to me by saying " when I grow up, I'm going to take a gun and shoot you dead!". This did not happened just one but 4 times and he also threatened my husband twice! The parents were told but ignored it. Since then, the kid was kicked out of a private catholic school and public school and Church in Penn State. They moved and the kid was also kicked out from a Catholic school and 2 Churches! The mother would go around saying that she started the kid late in school, which was a lie and he was also kicked out of Boy Scouts and is now in my son's troop. The mother said the churches were not 'kid friendly'. The son would always get into trouble in school by punching some kid in the face and taking their school lunches or stuff. Since all these, the mother has now been advertising to babysit and be a nanny in my community. I am very upset as she is an unfit parent and the risks other kids are put through this. She was also diagnosed with Asperger Syndrome but she has since lied that it was her son who has it. Also, the nanny has a police record in Penn State when she brought her son to the car dealership without his shoes on and he had to walk in the snow. One of the people at the dealership called the police on this matter. I don't know what I should do.






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Child Abuse Story From Melissa About a Nanny Now a Mother

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Jan 06, 2012
Melissa:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Report what you know and your personal experiences with this child and family to Child Protective Services. Based on what you stated, this child is a danger around other children. When you report, tell them that this mother is planning to care for other children and that you are concerned for their safety. Thank you for sharing your concerns with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
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