Child Abuse Story From Melanie

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Child Abuse Story From Melanie

by Melanie
(Location Undisclosed)

When i was about in the forth grade my half brother would come spend the summer with us thats when the abuse started. I remember one time he made me take my pants down and try to have sex with me. I remember the pain like yesterday i got up and ran to the room with my mother. The second time my parents were outside and he kept trying to get under the cover with me and kept showing me his penis. He died when i was 13 he drowned and i have never told anyone about this it has caused alot of issues with my life. My mother has emotionally and physical abused me i have nothing to do with her i hope that no one would do to my children this way or hope that i never come to that point where i would abuse them

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Jul 01, 2011

Melanie:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The beautiful thing about being grown up and mature is that we can choose who and what we're going to be. We can choose how we're going to act and react. The fact that you came from abuse does not mean that you have be abusive as a parent. The fact that you were abused can be the catalyst for NOT being abusive, as you've learned what it feels like so you don't want to repeat it to another human being. The fact that you say you hope you don't abuse your own children tells me that you are equipped with awareness and understanding. What is important before you have children is to learn how to deal with your own anger in a positive and healthy way, how to impose discipline in a firm but loving and kind way. These are the earmarks of a person who is ready for positive parenting. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jul 02, 2011

SEEM THATYOU SINCE YOU FEEL OK NOW NEED TO MOVE NEXT STEP TELL SOMEONE
by: Anonymous

I GUESS TO ME ITS SAD THAT YOU KEEP SECRETS ABOUT THINGS AN DDNT TELL THAT KID MAYBE BEEN ABUSED DROWN EVEN DIED FOR SOME ADULT ABUSE HIM AND TO SAY MOM ABUSE ME THAT WAY IS BROAD TERM PEOPEL ABUSE YES AN THEY ALSO ARGUE NOT GETTING ALONG WITH HER WAS NOT REASON TO NOT TELL SERIOUS STUFF LIKE THAT WHY IS YOU A PART OF BIGGER PICTURE IN LIFE NOT JUST YOU YOU ARE IMPORTANT YES BUT YOUR LIFE CAN EFFECT OTHERS SAVE OTHERS TOO AN YOU HAVE TO BE CLEAR WHAT ABUSE IS AN MEAN TOO BUT NEVER KEEP SECRETS LIKE THAT YOU SAVE SELF AN OTHERS MAYBE EVEN DEATH HE COULD BE OR BEEN IN DANGER YOU DIDNT KOW WHY HE DID IT NORMALLY KIDS DONT LEARN THAT BY THEMSELF THEY DO EXPERIMENT
BUT IN SEROUS SITUATIONS WHERE ADULT COULD BE DONIG STUFF IS WHY I SAY TO TELL , YOU HAVE CHOICES YES MODERAQTOR SAY THAT BUT WHAT ABOUT CHOICES COME UP SIMILAR YOU GROWN HOW YOU HANDLE THAT , I GUESS I THINK YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT THIS ALL THOROUGHLY NOT TO REPEAT HISTORY IN YOUR OWN ADULT LIFE IS WHAT I MEAN, AND BE CAREFUL TO KNOW FACT WHAT ABUSE IS AN ISNT AND LEGALLY TOO AND WHEN PEOLE DONT GET ALONG THERE IS WAYS TO SOLVE THAT WITH OUT ABUSE POSTIVE BUT THERE CONSEQUENCES TO NOT TELLING ISNT THER AND TO ALSO KEEPING SECRETS HOW DID THAT EFFECT YOU IT BE YEARS I TELL HER OR WHOEVER NOW OR IT STAY WITH YOU BETTER GET IT OVER WITH TELL THIER PARENTS HIS OR YOURS OR ANYONE CLOSE

Jul 02, 2011

I REAREAD THIS AN THIS WHAT I THINK
by: Anonymous

I RECOMENT AGAIN YOUR NAME SIMILIAR TO MINE SO WHY I DO THAT BUT I REREAD YOURS I SEE YOU SAY YOU RAN TO YOUR MOTHER FOR SAFETY YET YOU SAY SHE ABUSED YOU THEN I THOUGHT DID SHE LIE AN DAD LIE THEY KNEW AN WHOSE SON HALF WAS THE BROTHER CAME SUMMER TOO I WONDER AND IF THATS WHAT MADE HER ACT OUT ATE AWAY AT HER OR THE DAD AN HER ARGUE THEY DID KNOW , BUT YOU SAID IT YOURSELF I REREAD HOW KEEP SECRET EFFECT YOUR LIFE NOT GOOD I GUESS FIND OUT MORE IF YOU TELL SEE IF THEY KNEW AND IF THEY ADMITT IT ASK WHY DIDNT THEY DO SOMETHING WHY HE DIE TOO DROWN HOW , I DONT KNOW SOUNDS VERY HARD ON YOU AND YOU NEED TO PUT IT ON THEM THE ADULTS NOW FIND OUT MORE ASK TELL AN ASK THEM BETTER NOW THAN WAIT

Jul 06, 2011

Always believe in your self: Get help: You'll be fine
by: maurice

Melanie: Let go: read Darlene's comment: take ownership of them into your loving, caring, concerned positive thinking heart: Know her words are from a womans heart to you: empathy: She sure wants what is the best for you: I want what is the best for me: Good on you melanie: We'll You'll never know if that cousin himself was acting out abuse that was carried out on him: He did you an injustice he was wrong: You are safe: he is safe too from further abuse: You be in charge of your own destiny: Live the NOW time of your life to the full: live well: Laugh Often LOVE much: beginning with your wonderful and beautiful self: Look at that ME in the mirror: be gentle and kind to that beatiful me and that exquisite body of yous: Erase the memories of what he did and tried to do and the scars your Mother left on your body: Let Go: some form of counselling just think about it: It will do you a power of good should you try some form: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Before long Darlene will have so many fit and healthy visitors from my encouragement that we'll all feel good about each other: Melanie, get out there with like-minded young women your own age taking part in sporting and cultural activities: Team sports, Melanie you'll make real and natural friends for life: It is great Darlene stewards her site keeping cell nums and emails off: it allows each of us to have a heart to heart sharing naturally, openly, which in turn benefits each of us individually: I learn alot from the heart of another in knowing we are all so unique and special with loads of LOVE to share in emapathy with each other know ing the pain and effects that abuse can have on one: Melanie: Thank You: Darlene's site is a gift, a blessing, a stepping stone to healing from our abuse: she wants each of us to be a victim into victory so we can each love and cherish each other in our hearts:

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