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Child Abuse Story From Mazy

by Mazy
(Scotland)




I've only recently moved out of my home. I am so Glad i have, home was a nightmare! My mum was always in weird moods. Sometimes she would hum a song, if you could call it that. The endless drone was enough to drive me insane. Other times she would stumble about and sware like mad, mostly hitting me or complainig about me. She would drop a glass over my head when i sat down. After doing that she would surround me with crushed glass and tell me to walk over it if i wanted to go away. If i stepped over it she pushed me onto the glass. I was never allowed to wear socks or shoes inside the house and my mum had a mean trick of switching the heating in my room off on very cold days.
My Dad was always drunk, you could smell him before you could see him. He would hit me alot and throw me around. His threats were quite scary;
"Smile at me wrong today and i'll crush you!"
"I'll slap you so hard they'll never find your F'ing body!"
"If you want to be famous, i'll make you famous. The first girl to be found completely black and blue!"
I used to put on a brave face to this but when he was gone and finished hitting me i would cry for ages.
When i got my HPV jag he took great pleasure in smacking me where the needle had been.
My school never suspected anything. They thought I joined lots of free clubs because i was willing to learn, but it was only to get away from home. I didn't talk because it was polite, but it was because i was scared to. I didn't show emotion because i was strong, but it was because i had to always keep it in. I was covered in marks because i was clumsy and wild, but it was because of my parents.
I am now 17 and i have left my house and trying to get a job as an occupational therapist. I am also trying to take in my sister who is having to live through the same as i did.




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Apr 03, 2011
Mazy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you are now out of that horrible environment. I am also concerned about where you are living now. You didn't say if you are on your own or with another family. And while I commend and applaud that you are trying to help your sister out of that terrible place, which makes you an amazingly caring sister, I can only hope that the place she would go to is better for her and for you. If you haven't already, please contact Child Protection Services. At the very least, contact the Scotland Hotline at 0800 022 3222. What happened to you, and now your sister, is not and was not your fault, either of you. Something is seriously wrong with your parents. You most definitely deserve better than the abusive treatment either of your received. You're both worthy of dignity and respect. And you both deserve love in your lives. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Apr 03, 2011
telling
by: michelle f

you should tell. have your sister tell, where two is united i shall be,you got out help her to be strong too that is all that matters right at this moment get her out then deal with pain turn this pain to victory for her,then u both should get counseling i will be praying for both of u

Apr 04, 2011
Always believe in yourself: You'll be the winner over your abuser
by: maurice

I will be praying for you with Michelle: Darlene has given you real heart feeling words: She want to be sure you a doubly safe and secure where you find yourself now and where you want to have your sister with you: Mazy: don't give up and you'll succeed: Be a winner over your inhuman beastly sadistic parents ( I would not put that name on them) Uncaring: Unloving: Your beautiful body must have been in a total mess, yet you were able to hide why it was from teachers and other's: I know mazy we all did not tell out of total fear and a false sense of respect for so called parents/guardians/intitutions authorities who abused us: Putting fear as well as abusing their victim was (is) what the majority do: Bad, Bad people: So be brave now, you'll do what you know best because you care about safeguarding little girls from this beast/molesting hands: The world needs good kindhearted loving caring women and men like you Mazy: To protect and rid ourselves and communities of abusers:

Apr 05, 2011
The Horror
by: Anonymous

Mazy, you were given a crappy raw deal because your so-called parents are so twisted and messed up in their own ways of thinking that they didn't even know how to take care of themselves, never mind be parents to you. They didn't even know how to love even themselves; all they ever knew is hate, so they should've known better and loved and cherished you and your sister. They didn't deserve to have such beautiful daughters like you; you guys didn't deserve to have such cruel parents. They are sick people and they need to go to the mental hospital and jail for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you guys because you guys did nothing wrong. Oh, and bragging about beating and bruising you really shows me how uneducated and ignorant they really are. Oh, and forcing you to walk on the crushed glass, not letting you wear socks and shoes at home and even taking pleasure in doing so is a really sadistic thing to do, only cowards would do such things like that to such an innocent, helpless little girl you once were. Oh, and you are not to blame for their sadistic and ignorant behavior; they are to blame because they chose to abuse and torture you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and they misused it over you in one of the most vile ways. Oh, and parents (especially mothers) who abuse their own daughters are, in fact, one of the real abusers. However, I'm glad that you are in a safe place now, away from those ignorant brutes; I just hope that you take in your sister, report your so-called parents and take counselling. Good luck!

Apr 15, 2011
Glad you got to leave
by: Dede

I'm glad that you were able to leave your home. I hope you're living somewhere safe. I'm 13 so I have to wait another 5 years to leave my house and I'm afraid to tell soemone about what I'm going through. Stories like this give me hope that one day I'll be able to leave my hime and be happy. I'm happy for you and wish you good luck. Hope you can get your sister out of there too. It would be good for her and safe for her.

Dec 14, 2011
you are so strong
by: Anonymous

I am so glad you are out of the house now hopefully in a safe environment. You are so strong for helping your sister.

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