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Child Abuse Story From Matt

by Matt
(Connecticut, USA)




A son's cry in the dark: 
I have been abused sexually as a young boy by my ma's friend. I told my ma what he was doing and she said he would not do that. This went on for a long , it seems like it never stopped the memories still live inside me. People say get over it and move on. But how when you were violated and still to this day my family will not acknowledge it. I am the one that is messed up but where was their responsibilty. Why do i have to relive this hell on a day to day basis.
I remeber my underwear being covered in blood but still noone said a thing. HOw do we live and heal after this. Why is this not talked about in our society. They act like it is rare. If everyone looked in their families someone is being abused one way or another but we act like it is rare.




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Mar 01, 2012
Matt:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The visitors who come here know that sexual abuse of children, including male children, is not rare at all; it is all too common. What makes it so much worse is when a child does disclose and a parent doesn't believe that child. You were assaulted by a pedophile, and then betrayed and abandoned by the woman you turned to, the woman who was responsible for making sure you stayed safe, the woman who gave birth to you. It's just not that easy to "get over it". People who tell you that are just plain ignorant and aren't worth another thought. Please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to deal with the effects of being abused and then being denied a voice. You deserve that kind of help, Matt. I send you love, light and healing energy. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

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