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Child Abuse Story From Lucille For Shawn

by Lucille
(California, USA)




A friend lost: 
This isn't my storie to tell trueth be told i realy don't know much about what happen but my best friend just cummitted sucied and i have a feeling that it was to do with abuse reading all these storie make me realize how little i paid attition and how i could have hepled him and my heart is breaking becouse i know i will never see my friend again he was apart of the people i considered family truth is i don't know if it was abuse i just know him and his dad fought alot and that him and his mother committed suiced the same way by hanging themselfes and i want to understand how this could happen but nobody has the anwers he was cutting wich is a cause of something bad going on right i miss him so much and i don't know what to do for him and his family because if he was abused what about his sisters what do you do for them how do you help them his candle light vigil was tonight and i couldn't go i feel guilty becasue i knew something was wrong and i did nothing how do people handle loses like this he was truly one of the kindest people i know R.I.P Shawn we all will miss you because you will be in our hearts for ever



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Child Abuse Story From Lucille For Shawn

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Jun 02, 2010
 Lucille:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Talk to your parents. Tell them what you suspect, and tell them what you're feeling. Don't keep any of this inside. Talk to your school counsellor; s/he may be able to help you deal with this terrible tragedy. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about all this. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. You can visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Jun 02, 2010
 What can I do...? Great you shared your gut feelings
by: maurice

Oh Lucille, you had the courage, you were brave to search for Darlene's Safe Place Site to share your gut feelings: You'll truly never know the answer as to the WHY? your friend Shawn died through siicide: Nobody ever does which is the mystery: The their pain: I have know many a family whos children like Shawn said good bye sooner than they expected through suicide: They all live with a certain amount of guilt, if only, if only etc: Lucille, he was your friend, he had a friend in you: Only you and he knows all you shared in trust and confidence: A true friend: Live with all that was good about him: Live with all the little secrets ye shared in a positive constructive way: Don't doubt your own inner strength to carry on and live your life to the full knowing he will always be along side you from a distance: What you both shared cope with: What you thought was wrong and he did not share leave with God: You'll never know the real answers to what he did not share with you: Hi you have good parents trust them with your loss and your feelings: I am sure there were a bunch of you who were buddies/friends then lean on each other when you need a hug, a cuddle, to relieve the pain of his parting: Let go too Lucille: He would want you to get on with your life: Do your best and be happy: There is a rawness in you right now but time will put his going his separate ways in perspective for you: Both He and His Mom had their hidden reasons for dying through suicide: You are a loving, caring, understanding Teenager: You are intelligent: Please read Darlene's comment to you: There is great LOVE expressed in her words to you: I assure you if you take her way of coping, you'll be doing right for yourself and indeed for all you are so naturally concerned about: Lucille please try and have a healthy mind in a healthy body: By that I mean get out and about with your friends, class mates, peers taking part in sporting and cultural activities: With the company, team mates, and togetherness with others you will be able to keep your feelings in perspective: Always believe in yourself Lucille:

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