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Child Abuse Story From Liza E

by Liza E
(Sudan)




I'm being abused: 
well im still 11 and i cry mostly every day my dad is all way angry and my moms going though depression because my dad cheated on her for 20 years and iv seen her get beaten and cry and ask to just die i have a sister that is older then me and it treten like slave to the family my dad thinks sense shes his step child he can do that to her but i don't think that's fair he said im next but i don't want my 2 older brothers are leaving there lives in London and Canada so im the only one left and i just cant stand it my dad has lots of money but he never shares it if i want some thing and i bought it but there was no left over money my dad would scream at me once my mom went in to a rage and i tried to help her my dad picked me up and throw me against the closet and i don't know what to do i try to just deal with it but it calms me down for a day then i go crazy i never get good report cards because i never have the time to study its ether me crying or being yelled at or being hiten my dad is awful person he thinks he is better then every one but hes a selfish man when he gets mad at me for not making food or not doing things right he slaps me and locks the door on me at night i cry and cry but it never helps and now if my dad knows im using the computer to seek help he will kill me he thinks im doing school work and i live in Khartoum Sudan even though im not Sudanese theirs no way i can call the police cause all there going to say it shut up were trying to do our work iv tried it before and cant run away cause theirs no one to run to so im pretty much stuck here and im going in to depression my mum and my sister and im still awfully young i still want to see the world but whatever i do doesn't to be good enough i need help so badly but i don't know who to tern to and the town i live in is a little desert ;(




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Child Abuse Story From Liza E

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Nov 04, 2011
Liza:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I know you want help, but there isn't anything I can do to actually provide the help you need. I don't have a hotline number for you to call where you live. I don't suggest the police. I suggest contacting a women's group, or any group that provides support services to children. Just know that you ARE worthy of dignity respect and love. You don't deserve to be mistreated or to have to witness someone else being mistreated. When you don't get the dignity respect and love you deserve, it's not because of anything about you. It's all about the troubles that the grown ups in your life are dealing with. They just don't know how to deal with it themselves. So whatever you do, don't take the messages you're getting and tell yourself they're the truth. They aren't. You are not to blame. You are a beautiful, articulate, smart and wonderful young person. Always remember that. If there is a counsellor or trusted teacher at school that you can talk to, do so. Reach out to anyone who can help you. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Nov 04, 2011
I don't know much...
by: AnonymousT

I don't know much about the Sudan, nor do I understand the laws or how society is there...but I do know that no matter what country we're from abuse affects us the same way.

If Darlene has information for you as far as your country, please take it. In the meantime....
WRITE. Write how you feel, write how your day goes. Write something for each feeling. Anger, hurt, dissapointment, happiness....WHATEVER you feel - give it an emotion & write it down. Hide it, it is yours.

Someday - whether it's tomorrow or 8 years from now you will have an outlet, a place to go - your writing.

Please be strong & take whatever advice you get.
Rooting for you in America,
T

Nov 04, 2011
Stay strong
by: Kelsey

Do not give up. You will find a way through this. Sadly abuse in families happens more than anyone thinks and you are not alone. You need to find someone you can trust. Tell them everything including how the abuse makes you feel. Even if they can't help you out of your situation hopefully they will be able to help you emotionally. Stay strong. I promise it will get better someday.

Nov 07, 2011
Be Strong
by: Lauren

Don't Give Up, you'll get through it! <3

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