Child Abuse Story From Linda S

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Child Abuse Story From Linda S

by Linda S
(Oregon, USA)

I was emotionally abused and neglected by my mom and physically abused by my dad and I'd prefer the physical abuse any day:
I'd hate to be her my mother because I believe there is karma and her day is coming.

Let's see my mother told me she never wanted me. She said I gave her varicose veins when I was born and when I was 40 she told me she wanted me to kill myself and I tried.

I needed glasses I couldn't read the big E when I was 14 she was forced to take me begrugingly to the doctors and he yelled at her because of my eyes a week later she put me in a foster home. I thought I'd get redemtion silly me.

The things she has done to me I could go on for hours about, but she really didn't want me we never bonded I was never loved. Now to get my sanity back I have to forgive her, pray for her, confess my feelings of ill will towards her etc.

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Dec 23, 2011

Linda:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Your mother was sick and twisted, and she took that out on you. Forgiveness does not say that what she did to you was okay, and it does not mean that you have to have a relationship (loving or otherwise) with your abuser, and it doesn't even require that you have a face-to-face with her. Forgiveness says that I will no longer be consumed with hateful and hostile feelings. It says that I will no longer be controlled by the misery I was put through. And it says that I take back my power. But it sometimes takes more than this knowledge to get to that place; we simply have to meet our Self where we are in the moment. What was done to you was horrific. You deserved to be treated with dignity and respect and love. Start by giving your Self that dignity and respect and love. If you haven't already, please seek out some form of counselling or therapy in order to deal with all the effects of childhood abuse. It's the most loving thing you can do for your Self. I send you love, light and positive energy, Linda. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jan 04, 2012

I Want to hear I am sorry
by: Anonymous

that is all I want from that f c ing bi ch She has never apologized or shown one sign of remorse for what she did to me.

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