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Child Abuse Story From Lescia

by Lescia
(Missouri, USA)




When i was about 6 year old on a hot day during the summer every one got together at my grandmothers house to hang out it was normal and this was the first time i expeirnced it i went in to the kitchen to pour me some thing to drink and my big cousin 14 or 15 at the time came in behind me and every one else was in the front room well he pulled down my pants and began to rub his penis on my but and between my legs and he was touching my breat i just froze because i didnt know what to do then he stped and left i went into the bathroom and cryed because i knew i couldnt tell ne one what happend. The one day he had to baby sit me iwas older. then probably 9 or 10 and he made me touch him and he touched me and toold me that if i told he would kill my baby brother and sister and so i never sed any thing then when iwas about thirteen iwent to my friends house for a sleep over and i was jus about to fall asleep and all the other girls had fallen asleep and her big brother had walked in and came behind me iwas about to turn around and say somting but then he bgan touching me and rubing his handss all over me but i guess he heard a noise cos he pull my cover back on me and left out the room. that was the last time i was sexually molested by someone ive never told an i see the boys regularly.




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Child Abuse Story From Lescia

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Jun 09, 2011
Lescia:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Please tell someone what these boys did to you. You were likely not their only victim; they are very likely still sexually abusing other little and young girls. You see, Lescia, sex offenders don't generally stop abusing until they are made to stop. But it's also obvious that what they did to you is still affecting you. You need help for what you are dealing with, but that means you must tell first. Consider contacting Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about what happened. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And I believe you need to disclose. But first, visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Lescia, you didn't deserve to be molested. You certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. That starts only when you speak up. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir

Jun 09, 2011
smile always
by: asia

i know what ur going throgh and i know how hard it is and always rember you didnt do anything wrong and god will punish them so just stay strong and pray and the lord is there for u allways

Jun 12, 2011
Please Oh Please Be gentle, kind, act now and get help
by: maurice

Always believe in Yourself Lescia: Those boys molested you took advantage of your innocent years as a child: You were an easy prey for them: I was not to blame: I had a sense they were wrong but all afraid not to tell on them: DO NOW: You are older and wiser it is effecting you what they did: When I was a child with a group of other boys and girls now and again someone would pull a pants down as we thought it was a fun thing to do and get a great laugh about it and the one it happened to laughed too: But never did anyone do what that boy did to you: especially in front of so many no fear of being seen or caught: As Darlene said in her loving heart comment to you they may be still ruining other little girls lives by molesting them and getting away with it: It get more serious as they get older so please tell on them especialy that you still see them around: Have courage be strong share it with your best friend, family member, teacher or school counsellor: Darlene's advice and loving words to you are what you need to heed: Lescia: you'll do what you know to be best so that other little girls will be safe: I am sure you know it could get more serious and they could sexually abuse them: You'll do the best because you care: You'll also be helping yourself to have peace of mind about what they did: Think about getting some form of counselling too: Darlene knows this will put all you wrote into perspective: Then Lescia get on with living your life to the full: Have a healthy mind in a healthy body: All whom I have left a comment on know I believe this is a natural way forward making real friends by taking part in team games: sporting and cultural activities: I know this is the healthier option for all ages but especially for your age group: You'll make great friends for life and have loads of aquaintances to cheer you up when you meet; You'll gain a loving resepct for your body: You'll value and respect it's beauty so that you'll be in control of caring for yourself and it; All boys are not like the one's who molested and abused you so mix naturally with your fellow students and you'll know there is nice guys out there that you can build a trust and a relationship with: Who'll value and respect you for the wonderful and good person you are and want to be today: Hug and cuddle yourself now and again in front of the mirror it will give you a good feeling: era go on: it ain't a silly thing to be asked to do: there's no one looking at you in the privacy of your room. I do it now and again and i'm 64.

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