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Child Abuse Story From Leilani

by Leilani
(Hawaii)




My parents were killed when I was 7 months of age. My abusive uncle,M, took me in and did not start the abuse until i was 5 years. i remember he beating me with a frying pan and pouring hot oil on my back. my other uncle,S, was the one who convinced uncle M to beat me.At age 6 uncle M married my step aunt d. D had a son my age who M hated. his name was C and he was my only friend who knew what happened every single day at home. D just stood there with a sad look on her face when I was beaten along with her son C. The part about the abuse that is hard to forget is the fighting, Me and S's kids had our hands and feet tied behind are back and are mouths were gagged while we were thrown in a pit with dogs that were used for fighting. It was the second most painful thing I ever had to go through. The most painful thing i went through was looking through a peep hole and i saw C being beaten and spanked. one of M's followers ran up to the peep hole and tried to poke my eye out with a knife but i moved fast enough to not have my eye poked out but I still have the scar where he cut two millimeters of my ear off. I am fifteen now and even though C and I ran away and I live with an extremely kind family I still am mentally abused by M and S. I live 6 miles away from both of them and they both take great pleasure in reminding me of my horrific abuse but the worst part about it is they mentally abuse C and I. I feel like no matter how hard i try I will never be able to get away from M, S, and even D.




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May 24, 2011
Leilani:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

I'm delighted that you are now in a safe place, no longer having to endure such horrific abuse at the hands of these sick and twisted people. Report what is happening to you still at the hands of these sick people. Don't keep it a secret. Nothing will change if you do stay quiet. If you don't have a social worker through the system you can disclose to, contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone. They are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And for the sake of your emotional health, you need to disclose. Visit their website by copying & pasting the following URL into your browser: http://www.childhelp.org/get_help

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


May 25, 2011
Leilani...
by: Anonymous

First of all, my condolences to your parents. Second of all, you were given a raw, crappy deal because your so-called uncles are so twisted in their own ways of thinking that they don't even know how to take care of themselves, let alone be uncles to you/dads to your cousins. They are truly sadistic beasts and they should be locked up for all those terrible crimes that they committed against you because you and even your cousins did nothing wrong. You are not to blame for their sadistic behavior; they are to blame because abusers always choose to abuse. You were the children; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you guys. Oh, and I'm glad that your new family is with you now because they are so sweet for doing that; I just hope that you try counselling and that you will look into reporting those sadistic beasts for uncles to prison/mental institution for, like I said, all those barbaric crimes that they committed against you.

May 29, 2011
Hmmmm
by: Amira

This story is a sad one, tell anyone you can so we can stop child abuse.

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