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Child Abuse Story From Layla

by Layla
(USA)

When I was 5 my parents got divorced (my mom died a week later, strangely enough) and I went to live with my dad. I had always been big for my age and was told that I was a fat ugly pig and he was the only one that would ever love me. For the next 8 years he would hit, punch, kick, and practically enslave me. I went to school, but he would force me to wear thick long clothing to hide the bruises.

During gym I would go into the bathroom in the girl's locker room to get changed so that I wouldn't die (he told me if I told on him he would kill me). When I got my period it got worse. He would rape me then turn on the stove and put my arms and hands over it until I screamed. Once he made me get naked, stand in his bedroom while he knifed my breasts and under area. The scariest part was that he was smiling the whole time.

School just got worse. I was so thin that the kids called me anorexic, and I started to stuff my pants so that they wouldn't get blood on them or fall down. My grades got so low that they put me in special education, but I still failed terribly. When I turned 13 I just gave up. I was so low that my notes in school consisted of curse words: "I hate my life" and other derogatory terms about my life, my dad, and myself.

One day, the teacher was passing by and he saw them, so he sent me to the office. I trusted the principal, but was scared stiff to tell her anything. Two hours later when school ended, she let me out of her office but told me that if I wanted to talk she would listen. That day I decided to prove that I was being abused so I didn't go on the bus. I went into the bathroom and stripped down to my last layer of clothing (a t-shirt and shorts). I didn't want to startle the principal so I stuck my head in and told her I wanted to talk. She looked at me with such a caring look that I broke down and told her everything. She called Child Services, and that's the reason I'm still alive.

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Child Abuse Story From Layla

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Oct 05, 2008
SO glad you are still alive and with us...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

It was a very courageous act to tell your principal, Layla, even if it was by way of using your battered body to show her. She proved to you by being a caring and loving person that she could be trusted. It does sound as though contacting the proper authorities did indeed save your life. Whether you are still a minor or now an adult, I sincerely hope you are now in a safe place. And I do hope you have either received or will consider getting some form of counselling in order to help you with the emotional residue of growing up with a man who used you as a punching bag and sexual slave, rather than love and nurture you as a father.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Oct 05, 2008
I am amazed...
by: Linda Settles

I am amazed by the strength, the resilience, you demonstrated by your letter, Layla. You survived, and you are brave enough to write about it. It is your voice, and mine, and other's who write on this site, that speak into the pain of so many other survivors who have not yet found their voice. Many of them will, because you care enough to share your story.

May God bless and keep you, Layla. May his face shine upon you and the wind be ever at your back... I forgot the source of that blessing, but I will pass it along to you today. Now you walk in it--and keep on the healing path.

Love,
Linda

Oct 08, 2008
To A Pretty Woman
by: Anonymous

you're not a fat ugly pig... when i think of the name layla i think of somebody very pretty !

Oct 09, 2008
that is so sad
by: Megan

i'm so sorry your dad did that to you, no girl should be treated like that. But what does knifed mean

Oct 09, 2008
Soundss Alot like my
by: Anonymous

Your story sound alot like mine. I am turning 50 this year, have not talked or seen the man that calls himself my dad in many years. You sre not fat and ugly because that man is nothing but trash. Fear is their biggest threat against us...a little at a time we get stronger...but fear sometimes can make us stand up for our self...and a little help we were scare to ask for..you were very brave and strong to take the first step. Good luck!

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