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Child Abuse Story From Kristina J

by Kristina J
(North Carolina, USA)




When I was 11 years old my brother in law started to molest me , I didn't understand what was going on at first but then I caught on . He then had 2 kids with my sister and I didn't want to tell because I didn't want to start any drama in my family . It went on for 4 years on June 21,2011 I decided to come clean because my sister deserved to know the truth. My sister told me that she believes my molester and that she will stand by him 100%. I am Now dealing with shame and guilt for not telling sooner , I feel like I'm depressed sometimes. I miss my sister soo much and the rest of my family because they're on his side too. I am now 16 years old and I was a child who got robbed of my innocence. My name is Kristina and I'm a survivor of sexual abuse .




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Sep 02, 2011
Kristina:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

You have no shame or guilt to bear. Shame and guilt lies squarely on the shoulders of the sex offender who sexually abused you. You did not cause the problem...you are not at fault here at all. You didn't disclose earlier because of fear. Don't put adult values on what you did and didn't do. You were a child; HE was the adult. He took advantage of your youth and vulnerabilities. And now your family is betraying you. They are burying their heads in the sand, denying the truth of it. But YOU know the truth, Kristina. You KNOW the truth. And by telling the truth, you may well be preventing further abuse, abuse of other children...namely his own children. Be proud of that, Kristina. Be very proud of that. And please reach out for help, if you aren't already getting help. Someone who can be a support for you. If you have no one, consider Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir


Apr 16, 2012
im sorry
by: Anonymous

i cant belive whole family is against you. Im soory your going through it. It kinda was like that with me too.

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