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Child Abuse Story From Kathy P

by Kathy P
(Florida, USA)




i dont even know how to begin; i dont know how old i was when it started it just seems like it always happen to me as far as i could remember; it seems like a nightmare and as i get older it keeps coming back to me; knowing he is out going on with his life like nothing has happen he still talks to my one brother and my mom he has kids and grandkids he is successful but WHY WHY does he still get to act like there isnt anything wrong; this is killing me i think about it everyday and cant stop, but i remember when my mom found out that her husband was molesting me she found out by mistake...i just got home from running away me and my cousin and i thought everyone was sleeping so i told my cousin what has been going on well needless to say my mother was not sleeping she came out of the room and beat the crap out of me so my aunt pulled her off of me; then when she confronted him he would change the subject and asked my mother when was the last time she told me she loved me lol now that was a joke...well surprise she couldnt say it but hey that took the pressure off of him didnt it...i remember my mom having me take coffee to his room i use to wait till the last minute before i had to get up and get ready for school praying that i could just run out the door but right when my mom saw me she was like here take this to your dad i was like no im going to miss the bus and she would just hand me the coffee and make me go into the room where i knew he was going to be like when i walked in there... oh lets not forget the time that he got me and my brother drunk and we passed out i think i was 9 or so and when i woke up my mom and brother were leaving to go to my grandmas and leave me there alone so i ran out the door crying begging to go so since my aunt was there my mother couldnt say no...so it went well after that we all went there is so many times so many places so many stories of abuse i went threw with him and i dont know what to do it seems as if i get older the memories are more often.



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May 11, 2011
 Kathy:
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

The memories will continue to haunt you because your mind is trying to tell you that you need to deal with all the anger and hostility over what happened at the hands of your father, and the betrayal and abandonment of your mother. It was beyond cruel of her to make you subservient to him, knowing what he had done to you. She has a lot of answer for. Please seek out some form of counselling in order to help you deal with the repercussions of being abused and not being believed by the person in your life who was there to protect you and keep you safe from harm: your mother. You didn't deserve to be sexually abuse or to be abused by your mother. You most certainly deserve help for the fact that you were. Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

From Victim to Victory, a memoir
Darlene Barriere
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author. speaker. survivor. coach
From Victim to Victory, a memoir
May 11, 2011
 A willing enabler for a mother...and a disgusting pedophile for a father
by: Anonymous

Kathy, I can't believe that your mom would choose to abandon you to the so-called care of that sick pedophile of a father and let him offend you...how dare she! Shame on her for running away from you instead of protecting you from that sick beast of a father! I am disgusted by the fact that she chose to beat the living daylights out of you for telling on him and then force you to serve him and miss the bus; I hate women who choose men over their own children because children should always come first. You are not to blame for their sadistic behavior; they are to blame because they chose to offend and abuse you. You were the child; they were the adults; they had all the power and only misused it over you in one of the most vile ways. I really hope you're in a safe place now and that you try counselling and that you keep telling people you really trust until he/she will finally listen to you and help you. Oh, and please look to reporting those sickos for parents to the police.
May 12, 2011
 You are so Brave: I really belive this is for good in your life
by: maurice

Great you had the courage to write here on Darlene's safe haven site to begin your healing process: Kathy P please oh please read her comment to you: Read it slowly let her words sink into your heart and work them out in your head what she advices you to to do: You will do what you know best for your future happiness: Some form of counselling witl start you off: It will begin to put all that was done to you in being sexually abused and abused by your mother, his enabler to abuse you: She was not a good mother: You are highly intelligent Kathy P: stay in education: have a healthy mind in a healthy body: Be gentle and kind to that beautiful body of yours: You did not make it dirty that was done by a sicko of a child molester (your father) so be gentle on your body by sootheing it with scented oils and creams: hug and cuddle yourself with love: Say I'm special and I LOVE ME: era go on Kathy P there's only you in that safe space in front of the mirror: Say all positive stuff to that great and good ME looking out at you: I will I can: I must because I am WORTH it: Celebrate You Kathy P: you are worth celebrating: You are worth everything: In all the world there is only one you: So love yourself: Be a friend and have a friend who will love, value respect and cherish you for the wonnderful young woman you are: Stay safe: Be safe: Now get out there being active and alive with your friends, fellow students taking part in Team Games: sporting and cultural activitities: I guarantee you'll make real friends for life, you'll have many aquaiantanances to make you smile when you cross path's: There is safety in numbers: Love that healthy body of yours: My Motto is
I WILL: I CAN: I MUST: BECAUSE I AM WORTH IT Kathy P you'll be fine: live well: laugh alot: Love much: and live YOUR life to the full: Hi Miss follow Darlene's woman's heart words to you that sure will start you on the right road to healing from the effects of what those beasts did to you: be active be alive:

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