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Child Abuse Story From Justine

by Justine
(San Bernardino, California, USA)




I'm now 17 years old. I've had a pretty hard life, I guess you could say. I've been in and out of foster homes since I was very little. My mother had gone to prison for the death of my older sister, and my father was in and out of jail for drugs and other stuff like that. When my father was finally able to get us back (my brothers and sisters and I) he started to beat us for the littlest things. He then got a girlfriend who decided to hit us too. While all this stuff was going on he was heavily into drugs. We had gotten kicked out of our apartment and had to stay the night in a motel. While all of us kids were sleeping, my father had left to go do drugs. He had tried heroin for the first time and overdosed and died. He died next to me in the bed.

I have been through a lot but I know that there are kids who have been through way more then I have. For the people who think that there is no hope...think again. There is always a light on the other side, no matter what. Just keep your head up and live your life to be happy, not sad or depressed or anything of the sort. Pray to God and ask Him for strength, because through Him, anything is possible.

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Child Abuse Story From Justine

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Nov 29, 2008
Anything IS possible, as long a you believe it's possible...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Justine, I do hope you are in a safe and healthy place now. And I hope you are getting some form of counselling. You've certainly had to deal with the lion's share of challenges in your young life. I sincerely hope you are taking your own advice.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Nov 29, 2008
thanks
by: Anonymous

i am amazed at the strength that i read in your words. you share something so difficult and have been through your share of pain, yet you have so much hope, thanks for being so brave.

my son told me bravery is what you have to be in a bad situation, but courage is a choice you make to deal with the bad situations we all are given in this life. you certainly have a great deal of courage.

have the courage also to get help. i felt so strong myself coming out of really traumatic circumstances, which began to haunt and tear me apart as i got older, had my own children, trying to deal with stresses of raising a family. i definitely feel that if you can find the right help you will have a way of balancing the pain of the past with the pressures of the future.

take care of you. and keep holding onto hope.

me.

Nov 30, 2008
Oh my...
by: Francine

That is just crazy! Let's hope to God that your older sister did not die in vain at the hands of your mother.

Dec 02, 2008
I'm so sorry
by: Anonymous

I can't believe someone your age (or of any age, really) had to go through this. This is just devastating. I'm so sorry for your loss and your situation. No one should have to deal with something like that. God bless you for your courage and hope and know that you are an amazing, strong person and you can do anything in life. I hope that you use this experience to help others in similar situations.

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