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Child Abuse Story From Joanne

by Joanne
(Connecticut, USA)




It was freshmen year. I liked this boy and he liked me. I was a good girl. Good grades, good judgment. One evening I walked to the corner store. The guy who I had been hooking up with and crushing on was there. It was dark so he told me he would walk me home. We stopped to talk and went inside a driveway for privacy. Not to have sex or kiss but simply to talk. My dad came down the hill looking for me and then he saw me and the guy hugging. The guy stepped back and hell broke loose. My dad grabbed me by my long hair and started punching me in the head and face. I could see white sparkles in my eye. I got away and ran to the front door. I locked it and he began to pound on the door. I opened it and my younger sister who was five was there. My father smacked me until blood came out of my nose and mouth. The blood splattered on the white walls. I was crying. He took the belt and whipped me, calling me a bitch and hoe. He grabbed me by the hair once more and pulled. He continued smacking me and told my sister to go upstairs. He called my mom, who wasn't home, and told her he found me kissing a boy. That...liar. I hate him. Three years later we are still not talking.

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Feb 18, 2009
DON'T KEEP THIS TO YOURSELF!
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Joanne, I've edited your story due to its graphic content, but I will still address what you disclosed: for goodness sakes TELL someone! You and your sister are in danger. Contact Child Help at 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) in order to talk to someone about the abuse you've faced at the hands of your extremely violent and volatile father, and what you believe your sister is dealing with. Child Help are staffed 24/7 with professionally trained counsellors who will listen to you. They are not a reporting agency, although they can help you through the process of reporting if you decide to disclose the abuse. And I strongly urge you to disclose.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

A Video Reading by Darlene Barriere
Darlene Barriere
Webmaster: www.child-abuse-effects.com
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Feb 18, 2009
Yowza!
by: Francine

Wow, that sucks! Are you still with your so-called dad now or are you with a different family?

Feb 18, 2009
Crazy "Dad??????
by: Linda

You dad must be one mixed up madman. To go to such violent extremes, when he saw you and the boy hugging. There is no excuse for him. I agree with Darlene, tell the authorities on him. The man isn't stable. Get as far away from him as possible. Been there and done that. But I didn't have the courage to tell on my abusers. I was so afraid, I look back now and I am sorry I didn't do it. Don't be me.

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