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Child Abuse Story From Jessica9

by Jessica
(Timmins, Ontario, Canada)




Living the life I want: 
When I was under six I got sexually abuse by a much older cousin. That went on for years. By the time I told people, it was too late. I remember when he would touch me and make me touch him. That stopped, and then the abuse from my father and his girlfriend began. By the time I was 10 years old I was getting beat every day and had my underwear from the day before in my mouth.

I left that house when I was 12 years old. The day before I left, my dad's girlfriend beat me so much I had a black eye, fat lip and bruises all over me. I lived with an aunt that would throw things and yell. I was tired of all the abuse and tried killing myself a few times.

I am 27 years old now and have two kids. My life is much better than it has ever been. I want to live and share my story with others. I will not let anything happen to my kids.

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Child Abuse Story From Jessica9

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Jan 14, 2009
Writing can be so cathartic...
by: Darlene Barriere - Webmaster

Jessica, it sounds as though you have broken the cycle of abuse with your own children. Congratulations on that achievement! Many would not have come through such horrendous abuse having learned NOT to be abusers themselves.

I can tell there is so much you have not disclosed. And while you want to write your story for the benefit of others—a commendable goal—the best way to go about this is to get help for yourself first. Counselling is a very good place to start. And keep writing; it is very therapeutic.

Thank you for sharing your story with my visitors and me.

Darlene Barriere
Violence & Abuse Prevention Educator
Author: On My Own Terms, A Memoir

Jan 14, 2009
thanks
by: jessica9

I am ok with everything now. I have learned to go though my life and forget everything that hapened. THanks so much

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